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    May 2, 2010, 08:55 PM
    What's wrong with me?
    Every time that one of my friends has a crush on a guy, I start to like that guy too. I know he is off limits, and I don't act on these feelings, but I still can't help but like him. I have a boyfriend right now, but one of my closest friends just told me she likes our friend Austin. Granted, I have always thought he was very attractive, and had a bit of a crush on him, but now that my friend likes him he's all I can really think about, even though I'm dating his best friend.

    And while I'm at it, I'm completely fed up with my boyfriend, and I think I want to break up with him, but I just need to know that I'm not just being too picky about it. Last night a bunch of us went to laser tag, and the entire time we were waiting for the next games to start he was all over me. He kept hugging me and playing with my hair even though it was extremely hot and I told him to stop. I feel like he's being really clingy lately, and he's always got way too much energy. He's also really obsessive over me, like whenever I even mention another guys name he immediately starts to talk about himself. Its getting to the point where he's always trying to be right at my side, and he's making it so I can't goof off with my friends like I would like to.

    Any feedback would be extremely helpful, thank you (:
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    May 2, 2010, 09:14 PM

    Sounds like you're unhappy in your relationship, which is causing jealousy when you see your friends happy in their relationships. You want what they have, so you want their boyfriends.

    You either need to have a serious talk with your boyfriend and fix things, or tell him it's not working out and end it. Either way, you need to sit down and have a serious look at yourself and decide what YOU need out of life and a relationship. If your boyfriend can't provide that, then it's time to cut him lose.
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    May 2, 2010, 09:17 PM

    I think I will break up with my boyfriend...
    And its not just when I was unhappy with him, even when I was in a happy relationship I still got crushes on my friends boyfriends.

    And thank you
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    May 2, 2010, 09:36 PM

    It might be a simple case of wanting what you can't have. It's a universal human trait.

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