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jay-lynn11 · May 31, 2012, 05:38 PM

What should I do my ex boyfriend and I broke up because or some stuff that was happening its been 2 monthes since we broke up and everybody knows I still like him and people are saying he still likes me and I'm to scared to talk to him, what should I do I've already messed everything up and I don't want to fail again

Homegirl 50 · May 31, 2012, 05:42 PM

How old are you?
Why did you break up?
Did he break up with you? If so, if he wanted you back he would approach you.
What happened that you are scared to talk to him?

jay-lynn11 · May 31, 2012, 05:47 PM

I'm OK for now
We broke up cause people were saying stuff about him and another girl
I broke up with him, then we got back together for 1/2 a day then I said something but meant it differently
I don't know I just freeze up my heart starts raceing and I can't speak and I'm scared of what he might say

Alty · May 31, 2012, 05:53 PM

The choice is yours.

You can tell him that you forgive him, and ask if he wants to be your boyfriend again, or you can remain silent and hope that he come to you, or, you can forget him and move on.

Those are you choices.

I realize that your afraid, but fear never amounts to anything other than lost chances.

Besides, what are you afraid of? Afraid he'll say "no, I don't want to date you?" You're already broken up, so you'll be no worse off than you are now. But, what if you tell him you still like him, and he says "I feel the same way. Let's date again"?

You won't get anything if you're too afraid to try.

jay-lynn11 · May 31, 2012, 05:56 PM

But it was my fault and no he could do worse then say no trust me we've known each other for 2 years and we dated for 6 months

Alty · May 31, 2012, 05:59 PM

Originally Posted by jay-lynn11

but it was my fault and no he could do worse then say no trust me we've known each other for 2 years and we dated for 6 months

Your fault, his, it doesn't change my answer. Your options are still the same.

jay-lynn11 · May 31, 2012, 06:00 PM

Originally Posted by Alty

Your fault, his, it doesn't change my answer. Your options are still the same.

OK thanks I guess ill try tmo and let you know what happened p.s. he knows I still like him

Alty · May 31, 2012, 06:12 PM

Originally Posted by jay-lynn11

ok thnx i guess ill try tmo and let you know what happened p.s. he knows i still like him

Then go for it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. It's a lesson that's hard to learn, and requires a lot of chutzpah, but what do you have to lose? You already lost it. There's nothing but gain here, either way.

jay-lynn11 · Jun 2, 2012, 06:00 AM

Originally Posted by Alty

Then go for it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. It's a lesson that's hard to learn, and requires a lot of chutzpah, but what do you have to lose? You already lost it. There's nothing but gain here, either way.

I'm sorry I couldn't I was to shy :(

farmgirl13 · Jun 2, 2012, 07:44 AM

Do you guys still talk to each other? That is a good way to get where you want to be then

Homegirl 50 · Jun 2, 2012, 07:56 AM

How old are you?
You dated a guy for 6 months and are too shy to talk to him now?

jay-lynn11 · Jun 2, 2012, 11:26 AM

Originally Posted by farmgirl13

do you guys still talk to each other? that is a good way to get where you want to be then

No we haven't really talked we talk but not a lot its usually just saying hey and how are you nothing more I want to talk to him but I just can't

Homegirl 50 · Jun 2, 2012, 11:39 AM

Well if you can't talk to him there is nothing we can help you with. You dated him for 6 months. How can you be too shy to talk to him?
You have to take the first step.

jay-lynn11 · Jun 2, 2012, 11:44 AM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Well ifd you can't talk to him there is nothing we can help you with. You dated him for 6 months. How can you be too shy to talk to him?
You have to take the first step.

I was going to on Friday only he was sick

Homegirl 50 · Jun 2, 2012, 11:48 AM

Does he have a phone? Call him

jay-lynn11 · Jun 2, 2012, 11:52 AM

Originally Posted by farmgirl13

do you guys still talk to each other? that is a good way to get where you want to be then

Yeah sometimes

jay-lynn11 · Jun 2, 2012, 11:54 AM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Does he have a phone? Call him

I don't know his dads number but ik his moms but I don't know if he'll be at his moms anytime soon his dads sick really sick

jay-lynn11 · Jun 2, 2012, 11:56 AM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

How old are you?
You dated a guy for 6 months and are too shy to talk to him now?

I'm 14
Well I don't know what his friends would think they hate me and he lives for his friends

farmgirl13 · Jun 2, 2012, 11:56 AM

That's good do you say how you are are? Does he ask? Maybe text him your feelings or write down your feelings and give it to him, people actually can be more themselves when they are almost hiding behind a screen or paper

jay-lynn11 · Jun 2, 2012, 11:59 AM

Originally Posted by farmgirl13

thats good do you say how you are are? does he ask? maybe text him your feelings or write down your feelings and give it to him, people actually can be more themselves when they are almost hiding behind a screen or paper

OK ill write him a note my little bro distroyed my cell (hes 5) thanks ill try