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    May 31, 2012, 05:38 PM
    What should I do if I still like my ex boyfriend and he still likes me
    What should I do my ex boyfriend and I broke up because or some stuff that was happening its been 2 monthes since we broke up and everybody knows I still like him and people are saying he still likes me and I'm to scared to talk to him, what should I do I've already messed everything up and I don't want to fail again
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    May 31, 2012, 05:42 PM
    How old are you?
    Why did you break up?
    Did he break up with you? If so, if he wanted you back he would approach you.
    What happened that you are scared to talk to him?
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    May 31, 2012, 05:47 PM
    I'm OK for now
    We broke up cause people were saying stuff about him and another girl
    I broke up with him, then we got back together for 1/2 a day then I said something but meant it differently
    I don't know I just freeze up my heart starts raceing and I can't speak and I'm scared of what he might say
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    May 31, 2012, 05:53 PM
    The choice is yours.

    You can tell him that you forgive him, and ask if he wants to be your boyfriend again, or you can remain silent and hope that he come to you, or, you can forget him and move on.

    Those are you choices.

    I realize that your afraid, but fear never amounts to anything other than lost chances.

    Besides, what are you afraid of? Afraid he'll say "no, I don't want to date you?" You're already broken up, so you'll be no worse off than you are now. But, what if you tell him you still like him, and he says "I feel the same way. Let's date again"?

    You won't get anything if you're too afraid to try.
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    May 31, 2012, 05:56 PM
    But it was my fault and no he could do worse then say no trust me we've known each other for 2 years and we dated for 6 months
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    May 31, 2012, 05:59 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jay-lynn11 View Post
    but it was my fault and no he could do worse then say no trust me we've known each other for 2 years and we dated for 6 months
    Your fault, his, it doesn't change my answer. Your options are still the same.
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    May 31, 2012, 06:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    Your fault, his, it doesn't change my answer. Your options are still the same.
    OK thanks I guess ill try tmo and let you know what happened p.s. he knows I still like him
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    May 31, 2012, 06:12 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jay-lynn11 View Post
    ok thnx i guess ill try tmo and let you know what happened p.s. he knows i still like him
    Then go for it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. It's a lesson that's hard to learn, and requires a lot of chutzpah, but what do you have to lose? You already lost it. There's nothing but gain here, either way.
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    Jun 2, 2012, 06:00 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    Then go for it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. It's a lesson that's hard to learn, and requires a lot of chutzpah, but what do you have to lose? You already lost it. There's nothing but gain here, either way.


    I'm sorry I couldn't I was to shy :(
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    Jun 2, 2012, 07:44 AM
    Do you guys still talk to each other? That is a good way to get where you want to be then
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    Jun 2, 2012, 07:56 AM
    How old are you?
    You dated a guy for 6 months and are too shy to talk to him now?
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    Jun 2, 2012, 11:26 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by farmgirl13 View Post
    do you guys still talk to each other? that is a good way to get where you want to be then
    No we haven't really talked we talk but not a lot its usually just saying hey and how are you nothing more I want to talk to him but I just can't
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    Jun 2, 2012, 11:39 AM
    Well if you can't talk to him there is nothing we can help you with. You dated him for 6 months. How can you be too shy to talk to him?
    You have to take the first step.
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    Jun 2, 2012, 11:44 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Well ifd you can't talk to him there is nothing we can help you with. You dated him for 6 months. How can you be too shy to talk to him?
    You have to take the first step.
    I was going to on Friday only he was sick
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    Jun 2, 2012, 11:48 AM
    Does he have a phone? Call him
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    Jun 2, 2012, 11:52 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by farmgirl13 View Post
    do you guys still talk to each other? that is a good way to get where you want to be then
    Yeah sometimes
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    Jun 2, 2012, 11:54 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Does he have a phone? Call him
    I don't know his dads number but ik his moms but I don't know if he'll be at his moms anytime soon his dads sick really sick
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    Jun 2, 2012, 11:56 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    How old are you?
    You dated a guy for 6 months and are too shy to talk to him now?
    I'm 14
    Well I don't know what his friends would think they hate me and he lives for his friends
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    Jun 2, 2012, 11:56 AM
    That's good do you say how you are are? Does he ask? Maybe text him your feelings or write down your feelings and give it to him, people actually can be more themselves when they are almost hiding behind a screen or paper
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    Jun 2, 2012, 11:59 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by farmgirl13 View Post
    thats good do you say how you are are? does he ask? maybe text him your feelings or write down your feelings and give it to him, people actually can be more themselves when they are almost hiding behind a screen or paper
    OK ill write him a note my little bro distroyed my cell (hes 5) thanks ill try

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