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Desperation · May 1, 2011, 01:33 PM

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Okay, there is this guy I really like, and I think he likes me back as well. The problem is he is really shy, and I absolutely hate shy guys. He feels absolutely awkward to ask me out.

Should I just do it myself? All my friends tell me that would be a really desperate move, and that I should have patience!

Here's the problem, I don't have patience!!

Please help me. What do I do??

ken007nielsen · May 1, 2011, 04:15 PM

I thought you hated shy guys?

Desperate? Your friends arnt right in the head.. this is the 20th century, if you want something you go for it, if not you might find that it isent up for grabs anymore.

Desperation · May 2, 2011, 01:42 AM

He's shy as in shy to ask me out! But seriously in my school and stuff if a girl asks a guy out then its like she's a slut and stuff. So maybe I should just let go right?

ken007nielsen · May 2, 2011, 03:34 AM

So if you ask a guy out you're a slut?

I'm a firm believe in you go after what you want, or you might miss that chance and never get it back!

There are other approaches you can take to get him to ask you out; like I'm not doing anything to day - could be fun if you asked me out for something or something similar to that.

talaniman · May 2, 2011, 11:09 AM

How old are you and why don't you have any patience??

At least enough to let the guy get comfortable around you, and make up his mind how not to be so shy.

Have you told him that you liked him??

Desperation · May 8, 2011, 07:51 AM

Yes, I Would Love To Ask Him Out! But If He Says No I'm Not About To Live The Rest Of My School Years With SLUT Tatooed All Over My Forehead. I Know Its Really Lame, And Yes He Does Know That I Like Him.

DoulaLC · May 8, 2011, 07:59 AM

You could always present it as just something to do; not actually asking him out. "Hey, we should go to the movies sometime". Or "Hey, we should get together sometime so we can talk more".

Desperation · Jul 30, 2011, 11:45 AM

I have a BIG boy problem :/ so there's this guy and I really really like him. The problem is : a few months back he was totally into me and he had even asked me out in fact! But at the time I liked another guy. But now I'm seriously into him. Just thinking about him gives me butterflies. But the thing is I don't know whether he still likes me or not. Hes quite friendly with me even after I turned him down but we barely talk anymore. How do I tell him I like him? And how the hell do I know whether he still likes me? HELP!

talaniman · Jul 30, 2011, 12:58 PM

I think you take the same chance he did when he asked you out, but were unavailable. That's fair, as he may be afraid of a second rejection from the same person.

Fr_Chuck · Jul 30, 2011, 02:46 PM

So you can always wonder for the next 60 years what would have happened if you had only?? Or you can talk to him, and perhaps talk to him again and flirt a bit. If nothing else, say to him, you know I could not go out with you before, but if that offer is still open I would love to.

mame_chula123 · Jul 31, 2011, 04:49 PM

You should just tell him your feelings. Or you will never know. And this is what I do haha I tell my best friend to ask him who he likes but you would have to make sure he is friends with him or he well say why.. (: hope this help

Desperation · Aug 12, 2011, 09:46 AM

Hey guys so there's this guy and I really like him. A few months back he was totally into me too but I wasn't! And now I am but I didn't he was still into me. And then he started talkng to me A LOT! And that just made me like him a lot more. However I recently found out one of his really good friends likes me. It made me wonder if that's the only reason he talks to me? Everyone tells me I shouldn't like him and I guess they have a point but I can't help but like him even though he hurts me :(

I wish · Aug 12, 2011, 10:42 AM

What did he do to make him a jerk in your eyes?

Cat1864 · Aug 12, 2011, 11:00 AM

Is this the same guy? https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ll-590241.html

Why do your friends think you shouldn't like him?

How does he hurt you? You seem to be the one who is totally conflicted. He talks to you, but you question why when you find out he has a friend who supposedly likes you. What do you think his friend has to do with you liking him?

Nothing you have written points to him being anything other than a male who likes you. How is he being a jerk? What are you expecting or wanting him to do?

If it is the same male, he asked you out a long time ago and you turned him down. Is he supposed to put himself on the line again without having hope you will say yes? Does he know what your friends think and say about him?