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    ty65dfvdf Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 30, 2008, 10:03 AM
    What do I say
    My best friend has this boyfriend they have had sex and they are only 13 I think they are to young
    But the problem is that this bpy is trying to take her away from me and he also controls her and she can't see it he always pulls her away from me and my other friends and me and friends are getting very annoyed what should I do :confused::confused:
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    Oct 30, 2008, 12:08 PM

    Talk to your friend and tell her you're worried. If you really feel that he could be a danger to her, you'll have to speak up to a trusted adult.

    First, try and figure out if he's really controlling or if she just wants to spend all her time with him. Sometimes its easy to get so involved with your bf/gf you don't realize you've lost touch with other friends.
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    Oct 30, 2008, 05:24 PM

    I do agree. I am 14 I still think I'm too young too have sex also. 13?! I think that young kids becoming sexualyl active is... well... it's just wrong. Maybe talk to your health teacher and get her to talk to your friends about sex, STD's, Mono and stuff like that. Do talk to her because if you don't you will only feel more further from her. Do it in person though. Tell her that you feel that your growing further apart and that you never get to see her anymore. Tell her, "boys are priceless and that friends come with a price. you can't just Puch your friends away for a guy and then when something goes wrong come crawling back. im not saying i dont want you to hang aroung him but some things are only good in proportion and you need friends as well as a bf." If she's your friend she will understand. Also telll her that having sex at such a young age in an early relationdhip might mean that that is the only thing the boy is interseted in and once he gets bored with her he'll leave her. Someone told me that my boyfriend said that he would do me over and over again until her got bored. I dumped him on the spot. Hope this helps
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    Nov 1, 2008, 07:41 PM

    Sex at 13 is a huge mistake just think about it 3 years ago you were 10 am 14 and I know a girl who got pregnant at that age so she has too stop and any relationship like that is too far I mean seriosly she's just 13 how can he take control of her

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