Okay my boyrfriend told me that one his friends told him that I was talking to one of his friends. My boyfriend told me n I told him I wasn't n asked who the guy was. He doesn't know the guy because his "friend" won't tell him. He asked his friend if he had any proof and he said yes he knows her number and knows that I live on the southside... that's it!! I never cheated or anything and my boyfriend says he doesn't know who to believe. What should I do?

Well, obviously, your boyfriend isn't trusting.

If this "friend" has a "friend" and he doesn't have any information that you could easily get off anyone at school, then that is pretty much no proof that anything is happening. The fact that he won't reveal who this person is also shows this.
When I was in school, I could get just about anyone's number/location by making only three phone calls, max. I'm sure, with the way kids use myspace/facebook/etc. that it would be even easier to get that kind of information (unfortunately) so just having it doesn't imply anything, and your boyfriend is being immature to doubt you just because of that.

Also, information passed on like this is very unreliable.
For example:
Friend tells friend: Guess who's number I've got... [Insert your name here!] *giggle* as an immature joke.
Friend tells boyfriend: Guess what? Friend is calling your girl!
Boyfriend thinks: My girlfriend is cheating on me with friend's friend, Friend?

Talk to him about it, and if he fails to see the stupidity behind these claims, then I wouldn't think he is right for you.


BTW: How old are you? Middle school, high school?

If your boyfriend doesn't believe you (and you are supposed to be his girlfriend) there is something wrong there. That's messed us for him to believe his friend over you.

Just be you. You didn't do anything wrong. If he wants to act like a jerk, let him.

This is the same kind of stuff the boys at my school used to act when I was younger. And half the time, the person doing all the talking was the one trying to get with the guy that you are with, or maybe this girl doesn't like you. That may not be the case though. That is just the way some things happened at my school.

You could always have a deep conversation with him.