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wilna · May 6, 2009, 05:43 PM

Well I been dating my now ex boyfriend for 1 year on and off relationship.
But now were broken up because other people were telling him I was cheating on him with this boy at my school and all I was trying to do is protect him from the boy who liked me because he was threating to beat him up him in his cousin so I had no choice but to do that and I could not talk to my now ex boyfriend because his mom hates me.

liz28 · May 6, 2009, 07:09 PM

You can't get someone back that doesn't want you back. You should have been honest with your boyfriend from the start because honesty is the best policy.

So now you move just like he is trying to. Oh course your not going be his mother biggest fan because you hurt her son.

Let go, learn from this experience, and accept the relationship you had with him is over.

I wish · May 7, 2009, 06:18 AM

Have to spread rep. liz28 is right!

It's admirable that you wanted to protect your boyfriend, but I don't understand why you didn't tell him? Do you not trust your boyfriend? Were you scared of how he might react?

You should have trusted your boyfriend and told him about the situation. Keeping secrets like that will just cause misunderstandings in the future.

But, if you were scared of your boyfriend's possible reaction, then maybe he's not the guy for you anyway. Trust in the other person is very important in relationships.

On and off relationships most of the time end in "off." There's a reason you kept going on and off. If you don't fix the problems when you get back together, then you will go "off" again.

Learn from this experience.