Two faced friends, what do we do?
Okay so I have two friends. They're called 1. and 2. because it would be better to be vague. So, friend 1 and myself have been friends for about 5 years, and friend 2 and myself have been friends for about 1 year. At first it was very subtle, but now friend 1 has been acting two faced and is telling other people our DEEPEST DARKEST secrets. She is very judgemental and is hard to please. She would freak out when she is busy and friend 2 and I would hang out at one of our houses because we live close together. She would be mad for no reason at a lot of things that are just ridiculous and we would always apoligize and give in. She has been talking with us at some points and "accidently" slip on our secrets to other people friend 2 and I don't trust and tells everyone we are embarrassing to her and when we do go to public places she would try to avoid us and walk either in front or behind us. You see, friend 1's mom doesn't like friend 2 at all for reasons caused by friend 1 because she is telling her mom false information and twisting things around to make friend 2 look bad in front of her mom who already doesn't like friend 2. She would also lie to our faces when we would know she was lying. She also brags about her life and when we start saying things that don't revolve around her she would twist the conversation so we only talk about her and who she likes and would get annoyed if we don't pay attention. The other day friend 2 sprained her foot and went to school limping, and friend 1 would keep repeating that friend 2 is slow and insulted how she looked and she also kicked her injured foot 3 times making the injury worse than it original was and laughed at it. Continuously tells us we are weird in front of and not in front of other people embarrassing us and making her feel superior to us. We are just about tired of all of it and we are wondering if it is a good choice to break the friendship or at least give it a break until she seriously changed her act. We are only 15 so it is hard for us to make a decision like this and if you have any advice please respond to this and give us advice if we do have to break the friendship how we should go about it. Thank you to anyone who read our life story and those who responds.
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