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    Feb 8, 2009, 04:24 PM
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    I am 15 and I have been with this 17 year old guy for a year and a couple months. I no he loves me for sure because I put him though a lot I meen a lot and he still fights for my love . We always talk about having a baby together sum day or soon but we also don't intetionly try to have a baby but we have unprotcted sex and I haven't gotten pregnet once yet ? I'm scared that I can't have a baby because of some odd reason . And that's all he talks about is me him and our baby will he leave me ? Because of this

    And I'm not understanding why it is that I can't conseed a baby.
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    I also don't get my periods regularly at all ? Could this be whyy
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    Feb 8, 2009, 04:34 PM

    First this is a bulletin board, not chat or texting. Please don't use text speak here.

    Second, as I said to you in another post, you are not physically, emotionally or finacially ready to have a baby! Why would you inflict that on an innocent child.

    Finally if you really love your boyfriend, why would you let him risk his future by having sex with someone under the age of consent. If it becomes known that he has had sex with you, which it would if you got pregnant, he could wind up with time in jail.
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    Feb 8, 2009, 04:46 PM
    So true! Why on earth would you want you want to have a baby now? You are 15, your not even an adult yet! Besides, what on earth is the hurry?

    If your 17 year old boyfriend wants a baby now... he's not an adult either! I don't get why you're in such a hurry, both of you are very young, why not leave the baby making to a later stage in your life!

    I highly doubt that you are emotionally, mentally and financially ready to become a mom! (like scott said!)

    Why do you want a baby now? Because your afraid he's leaving you? Trust me hon to have a baby at your age to keep a relationship together is such a bad idea, it never works no matter how old and mature you are! (you could have been 25, 30 it doesn't matter... it's a bad idea either way!)

    Why bring a baby into the life of two teenagers? Why do you want a kid now?

    Also, I'm 25 and I'm no were near ready for kids, and I have a steady job, a steady income, I'm mature and an adult. To be a mom and to be a parent is a huge responsibility! Its not enough to just pop out a kid, and it takes a lot more then just a little love or a craving to become a parent.

    My best advice for you... is drop the baby idea! Use protection and live life as a TEENAGER! Adult life will come when it comes! There really is no rush, trust me. Before you know it you will have to manage your own life a 100%, and deal with all the responsibilities that comes with it. So enjoy the life you have at the moment. Go to school, hang out with friends, have fun!

    And as for your irregular period... well it can be a number of things... do you eat well and regularly? How long since you got your period? (as in how old were you when you first got it)

    Also I think that even though you've gotten your period, and you're body has the ability to reproduce, that is not to say that your body is ready to carry and give birth to a child. You should really grow up first... how about the future?
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    Feb 8, 2009, 07:03 PM
    In fact in every US state I know of, he is a chld molester having sex with a 15 year old.
    In Georgia, he would be charged at 17 as a adult and serve at least 3 years in prison ( MIN).

    Next you appear to be just lucky at this point and time. At 18 or 19 then you start trying after you have life settled somewhat.
    And the other poster is correct, your body may not be ready for that yet.

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