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    Oct 7, 2007, 05:58 AM
    Torn between two lovers
    OK so this guy rich and I went out for a month and I really loved him, but then something happened beetween us he didn't tell me what it was but we broke up and I didn't know why. Now its been 3 months. His best friend dylan asked me out and I said I have to think. Dylan asked rich if he can go out with his ex(me)so he said "ya i dont care". Yesterday before I was going to say yes to dylan I asked my best friend to ask rich if he was completely over me cause I had to know to move on. So she did and he said "i like to keep that to myself"?? WHAT DOES THIS MEAN? Anyone?is he or is he not over me?I don't know if I should yes to dylan cause I still love rich no wait dylan but not as much as I love rich no wait I like dylan a lot no... omg... can anyone give me some advice I'm so confused.. thanks.. im using names cause if I don't your just going to get so confused lol
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    Oct 7, 2007, 09:13 AM
    Forget Rich and go out with Dylan because he already told Dylan that he could go out with you (I take that as not much interest on his part)
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    Oct 7, 2007, 09:22 AM
    What part are you confused with here? Rich said he did not care if Dylan went out with you. That is pretty straight forward. Why did you did ask your friend to go and ask Rich if he was over you? Were you hoping Rich would say something to the effect that he regrets not seeing you anymore and he made a huge mistake and he loves you?

    I think you made this into way more than it is. While I would never date a friend of an ex boyfriend - too much cross information and complications - it is your call.

    Actually, you are not ready to go out with either one. You don't know your own mind about either one.
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    Oct 7, 2007, 09:24 AM
    Well I am not sure I would do either, what person asks permission from a ex to go out with someone, sorry but if he really cared for you that much, nothing would have stopped him.

    Next you used the word "rich" way to many times, so it is obvious a boy having money is the most important thing at this point or it appears
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    Oct 7, 2007, 10:21 AM
    I used rich because the his name is richard so I made the name smaller. I don't care about a guy with money.. lol
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    Oct 7, 2007, 02:47 PM
    I say go with the flow and see what happens but hold off getting too serious until you know what these guys are up to.
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