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wishes · Apr 13, 2009, 09:24 AM

OK so as you previously read my friend has a new boyfriend. Good for her. But when we go out all they do is just make out e.g... yesterday all I said was hello. They meet 3 hours before they meet with us to give them some alone time and I expect that when they meet with us they talk to us not be all over each other. I don't want to tell my friend because I'll break our friendship... do you think this will ware of by time?

ChihuahuaMomma · Apr 13, 2009, 09:53 AM

Yeah, give it two weeks, and they'll hate each other...

artlady · Apr 13, 2009, 09:59 AM

You need to tell your friends* there is a time and a place for everything* and you are not impressed with their make -out skills.
They may continue to do this unless you tell them you think it is rude.
Tell them,it's a little difficult to have a conversation with someone who has a tongue down their throat!

redhed35 · Apr 13, 2009, 10:12 AM

Hey,how about you?
Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend you can take along too.

You could take this time to hang out with other friends (not use them) until your best friend comes back to earth,but look around,is there someone in your group or you know that you can do stuff with?

HelpinHere · Apr 13, 2009, 05:55 PM

Seriously? You SHOULD tell her that you don't appriciate being ignored for a little tongue action. She may be into it, but it seems you are being more than reasonable.
If she IS your friend, she will at least respect that much and not do it all the time in front of you. If she will break off your friendship simply because you don't approve of her face-sucking, then honey, she don't value your friendship enough.

I agree with redhed, that you should hang out with someone else until it dies down. (It WILL)
She will come around soon enough, and she CAN be a girlfriend AND a friend at the same time, just wait it out a little while.

mudweiser · Apr 13, 2009, 06:01 PM

I had a friend that used to do this. I don't know how close you are but when she would do that I'd squeeze in between them and be like "I just wanted to be part of the action", or I'd start making slopping sounds as well to the point they'd look at me and get the point. Like I said we were good friends.

When it come to you it doesn't really sound like your good friends if telling her to stop acting like a sucky fish leads to the end of your friendship.

Sarah

nitelight198073 · Apr 13, 2009, 06:20 PM

Tell them to get a room it is totally inappropriate to do that all the time and it is also rude of them to make you feel like a third wheel

shazamataz · Apr 14, 2009, 02:38 AM

I hate people who do tthat, I mean really hate! My partner and I never go beyond hand holding in public and the occasional peck. Save the affection for when you are on your own, it just makes other people uncomfortable when you are snogging on with someone in front of them.

Make a joke out of it... just comment that they should "get a room" or just say "come on guys, I want to talk to you, not your tonsils"
Hopefully they get the hint... if not I'm sure they will run out of air eventually :)

wishes · Apr 15, 2009, 09:27 AM

Originally Posted by mudweiser

I had a friend that used to do this. I don't know how close you are but when she would do that I'd squeeze in between them and be like "I just wanted to be part of the action", or I'd start making slopping sounds as well to the point they'd look at me and get the point. Like I said we were good friends.

When it come to you it doesn't really sound like your good friends if telling her to stop acting like a sucky fish leads to the end of your friendship.

Sarah

We are good friends she's like my bestest friend ever and we've been through a lot together and I didn't tell her yet cause I'm terrified that she'll just yell or think that I am jealous or something. I don't want to lose her

wishes · Apr 15, 2009, 09:28 AM

Thanks guys you all made me laugh :D I'll talk to her I guess

mudweiser · Apr 15, 2009, 09:30 AM

Originally Posted by wishes

we are good friends she's like my bestest friend ever and we've been through alot together and i didnt tell her yet cause i'm terrified that she'll just yell or think that i am jealous or something. i dont want to lose her

You shouldn't feel scared if your good friends. Tell her:

"Jaime, I want to tell you something but I'm a little scared on how you'll react...but it's been bothering me. I think it's great you found a guy, but it really bothers me when you guys make out infront of me. I want to hang out not watch a porno. I hope you okay with that."

Sarah

wishes · Apr 16, 2009, 12:37 PM

Originally Posted by mudweiser

You shouldn't feel scared if your good friends. Tell her:

"Jaime, I want to tell you something but I'm a little scared on how you'll react...but it's been bothering me. I think it's great you found a guy, but it really bothers me when you guys make out infront of me. I want to hang out not watch a porno. I hope you okay with that."

Sarah

omg that's perfect:D its like funny but serious at the same time... thank u so much sarahx.x.x.x.x

mudweiser · Apr 16, 2009, 12:41 PM

No problem. I've had to deal with friends like that in the past ;)

Good luck to you

Sarah

chrissymarie · Apr 16, 2009, 12:57 PM

If all it takes is you telling her that her making out with her boyfriend in front of you is gross to end your friendship... then what kind of friendship is that? Sounds more like control to me...

Watch out for these bestest bestest friends in high school. Their generally just insecure teens dealing with their insecurities by controlling you.

nikkiboo · Apr 16, 2009, 05:24 PM

Well I think you should tell her, and if she don't like what you got to say than o-well she will get over it if she is a true friend she can at least give a little of her time to you