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    barbiechick123 Posts: 317, Reputation: 25
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    #1

    Jul 6, 2009, 01:05 AM
    Are they only in it to hook up?
    Lately I've been feeling like anytime a guy in infactuated with me, it's because he wants to get action. I've never done anything slutty with a guy, I barely kiss them, so why is it when they talk to me they think that they're going to let them feel me up, or hook up with them? Anyway, I'm 15... does age matter when it comes to this.
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    shazamataz Posts: 6,642, Reputation: 1244
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    Jul 6, 2009, 05:10 AM

    At 15 you can find some mature, understanding guys but a lot of them are at the age where their hormones are taking over. Guys will have either already engaged in sexual activity and want more or they are curious about it and want to try it.

    Don't give in to what they want. If you are not ready to go past kissing then don't do it.
    Never let a guy pressure into doing anything, if they keep trying to convince you then they are not worth your time.

    You are young, I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 18 years old and I am in a long term relationship now, I know quite a few people here who did not lost their virginity until their late 20's.

    If a guy is truly right for you and cares for you then he will not pressure you, when you have found a boy who is willing to wait until you are ready then you know you have found a keeper ;)
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    danielnoahsmommy Posts: 2,506, Reputation: 297
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    Jul 6, 2009, 05:13 AM

    Just be secure in yourself. Stay firm in what you believe. If they don't want to be with you, then you are better for knowing! Be true to yourself always!
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    Jul 6, 2009, 11:17 AM

    I know exactly how you feel.

    And I agree with the other two who have answered.

    Guys generally think with the wrong part of their bodies.

    Just be strong and independent and stand your ground. Don't give in.
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    88sunflower Posts: 1,207, Reputation: 462
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    Jul 6, 2009, 11:25 AM
    I have come to think guys act that way at every age. Its only going to happen if you let it happen. Don't waste your time on anyone who doesn't have respect for your choices. There are enough girls out there who will do what they want. Let them go find those girls and stay strong, smart and clean.

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