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Jul 10, 2012, 08:23 PM
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I still have feelings for my ex-boyfriend, who happens to be my best friend.
So me and this guy, let's call him George, George and I dated briefly, and it ended because he has fragile trust issues, and we both agreed on staying friends afterwards, and we became even closer than we were, and I consider him as one of my few best friends. I never stopped having feelings for him, ever since we started dating. But now he's got a girlfriend, and they've been together for a month, and they seem very happy together, which makes me happy because he is, but I am not sure if I am happy because of the fact that he has a girlfriend. I can't go up to him and tell him I feel about him, because I am too shy. I can't ruin his relationship with his girlfriend, because I would feel terrible, but I still have feelings for him that I cannot deny anymore..
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Jul 10, 2012, 08:27 PM
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Well you need to deny them. If he is your friend and you care about him so much, don't mess with his relationship. Keep your feelings to yourself and don't spend so much time around him.
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Jul 10, 2012, 08:29 PM
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 Originally Posted by hollietrollie
So me and this guy, let's call him George, George and I dated briefly, and it ended because he has fragile trust issues, and we both agreed on staying friends afterwards, and we became even closer than we were, and I consider him as one of my few best friends. I never stopped having feelings for him, ever since we started dating. But now he's got a girlfriend, and they've been together for a month, and they seem very happy together, which makes me happy because he is, but I am not sure if I am happy because of the fact that he has a girlfriend. I can't go up to him and tell him I feel about him, because I am too shy. I can't ruin his relationship with his girlfriend, because I would feel terrible, but I still have feelings for him that I cannot deny anymore..
Maybe you should just be honest with him and try to get him to understand how you feel ? Ino you said you are shy but if ye are that close you must be able to talk to him and be comfortable. But if you feel he is happy in he's new relationship maybe its better of not interfering. Do you think he would be happier with you or happy in he's recent relationship . Its all really up to you and what you believe would be the best to do
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