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    alesander Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 7, 2010, 12:55 PM
    As soon as I started to work, my mother want to make all my decision
    Immediately after I draw my first pay my mother wanted to take control of my money. When I confront her she gets angry. Why? What can I say to her?
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    Jun 7, 2010, 12:59 PM

    Can I ask what age you are?

    Do you live at home?

    Are you also attending school?

    Is it a part time job,or full time?
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    Jun 7, 2010, 01:14 PM

    I am 18 years of age!
    Yes I live at home.
    I am attending school (night).
    And I am also working full time.
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    Jun 7, 2010, 01:16 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by redhed35 View Post
    can i ask what age you are?
    i am 18 years of age
    do you live at home?
    yes i live at home
    are you also attending school?
    yes i am attending school (night)
    is it a part time job,or full time?
    I am working full time
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    Jun 7, 2010, 01:29 PM
    What is the reason for my mom not liking any boyfriend I have?
    My mom do not like my boyfriend because he smokes. But he treats me very nice and provide me with the best he can. Why does she have a problem. [Personal information removed]
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    Jun 7, 2010, 01:43 PM

    Can you both come to an understanding that you will give a portion of your wage towards the household budget?
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    Jun 7, 2010, 01:47 PM

    Can I ask what ages you both are?

    Edit: I see by your other thread that you are 18.

    It would seem by both your threads there is a lack of communication between you and your mother.

    Set aside some time to discuss what it is that really is bothering her about your boyfriend,and perhaps,she may like to meet him to see her herself that he is a nice guy.
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    Jun 8, 2010, 07:49 AM

    Is your father in your life? If not maybe your mom is taking the role of both mom and dad. Parents can be very protective of their children. Are you an only child?

    No parent wants to see their kid get hurt, or be with someone who will not treat them right. If you do not smoke, your mom may think that him smoking around you will lead you to smoke.

    I think Red is on to something with sitting your mom down and having a good talk to her about why you like him, and why she doesn't.
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