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cissy0801 · Mar 17, 2007, 02:05 AM

I have this really nice friend and very carageous and loyal, and is the sort of person everyone likes. Well she doesn't have a lying problem but its just she sometimes gets too anxious about things that I tell her and ten minutes later everyone in the class knows it. No ofense to her but you can kind of describe her as a word spreader but only good things and funny things and she will never ever spread rumours.

Well the situation is like this: I was telling her something really cool on the internet and I said to her don't tell anyone else cause everyone would know and then there would be a big cotastrophe and I told her to hold on. I still wasn't very sure so I used my other hotmail account a pretended to me a robot like I told her there would be on the site. As I was talking to her as a robot, she thought I was a real one and she told me if I could add her half sister!! The next day I told her the truth and said to her well please and that was a fake one but next time watch out!!

So, I was still unsure so I made a hotmail account and then I chatted with her but then the next day she was all:eek: :D :o :) and she was asking me if I could add her half sister again!! I was really mixed about her so I signed in msn and I chatted to her and I told her the robot told me that you want the robot to add your half sister. She then told me that she was chatting to the robot ( me) and that her little half sister came in and all those excuses but I said to her well you broke a really big promise and I only let you know the site is because you're my friend and I told her about the agreement we made and all those things and promises.

I really am sick of her but I still want to be her friend but not tell her anything next time. I chatted to steph, my friend and she told me the same thing!! :eek: so now I am really mixed about her having mixed feelings towards her and I was still wondering if I should actually give the real article and then it would all be good?

Now I can't chat to her because I am in the USA on a holiday trip but when I get back should I trust her one more time and give her another chance?:confused:

tinsign · Mar 17, 2007, 02:44 AM

Simple solution you can still be friends, but if you don't want something known to everyone else.. then just don't tell her.
As far as being as you said "sick of friend" take a break you don't have to talk and or be with a friend constantly.

cissy0801 · Mar 17, 2007, 02:53 AM

Originally Posted by tinsign

Simple solution you can still be friends, but if you don't want something known to everyone else..then just don't tell her.
As far as being as you said "sick of friend" take a break you don't have to talk and or be with a friend constantly.

Thank you I think that might help well maybe... but the problem also I forgot to write is that she sits next to me and she nags me 24 hours 7 days a week whether it is email or phone... we can't change desks because our teacher said we need to get our act together

tinsign · Mar 17, 2007, 03:08 AM

Originally Posted by cissy0801

thankyou i think that might help well maybe... but the problem also i forgot to write is that she sits next to me and she nags me 24 hours 7 days a week whether it is email or phone.... we can't change desks because our teacher said we need to get our act together

That to can be handle without having a dispute over it.. Tell her even though you appreciate her opinion that it is your right to live your own life as it is hers.. but if you ever feel the need to talk you will ask her advice.
Also that you already have parents and that the nagging needs to stop, as you don't want to end up losing a friend.