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    Sep 22, 2012, 07:38 PM
    My girlfriend has more feelings for my best friend
    I starting hanging out with this girl she seemed to perfect so I just thought she was using me. I have had trust issues with my life and I hate having not to trust people especially my own girlfriend. My best friend was sitting next to me talking then my girlfriend comes and starts flirting with him. I felt horrible like I did something wrong and I was thinking about talking to her I asked my parents and they always have the same awnser "find a new one" But anyway, I really like her but even love her but I don't know if she really likes me help :(
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    Sep 22, 2012, 07:45 PM
    She talked to him this one time only? Did she tell you she had feelings for your best friend?
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    Sep 22, 2012, 08:00 PM
    She talks to your friend and you freak out ? You have serious issues. What is she suppose to do, ignore him ? You need to get counseling for trust issues.
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    Sep 22, 2012, 08:07 PM
    Please define "flirting" because your definition could be different compared to another person. If smiles and conversation consists of flirting, well then, perhaps you need to ease back some. NOW, if she was saying things such as, "MIO DIO, you're HOT!" well then I am on your side.

    You mention trust issues... Do you think that it might be in your best interest to have some counseling regarding these issues before taking on a relationship?

    Just a thought.
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    Sep 22, 2012, 09:58 PM
    Define flirting
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    Oct 6, 2012, 11:56 AM
    Okay, if she really has more feelings for your best friend, DUMP HER. You don't need to waste your time with someone that doesn't love you 110%. Your friend isn't really your best friend if he goes after her, hope for the best, be prepared for the worst! Good luck to you.
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