Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
Page 1 of 2 1 > Last»
    Inso The Jester's Avatar
    Inso The Jester Posts: 54, Reputation: 2
    Junior Member
    		  
    #1

    Aug 30, 2012, 05:35 PM
    Feeling guilty after relationship
    I recently got out of a relationship with a really nice girl we have been together for more than 5 years
    I gave up everything for her I quit my job my money I gave up my dream my time just to see her smile and hardly ever saw it she hooked up with this guy that treats her like trash and does not respect women the way they should be respected
    She left him and wanted to come back to me and I refused
    My question is
    Did I do the right thing or not?
    Guilt is killing me
    Homegirl 50's Avatar
    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,794, Reputation: 2604
    Dating & Teen Expert
    		  
    #2

    Aug 30, 2012, 05:52 PM
    If you were not getting what you thought you should from the relationship any way, why should you feel guilty?
    I want to know why you would give up your job , money and dreams for her, why you felt you had to?
    Inso The Jester's Avatar
    Inso The Jester Posts: 54, Reputation: 2
    Junior Member
    		  
    #3

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    If you were not getting what you thought you should from the relationship any way, why should you feel guilty?
    I want to know why you would give up your job , money and dreams for her, why you felt you had to?
    Thank you that really helped
    JudyKayTee's Avatar
    JudyKayTee Posts: 46,503, Reputation: 4600
    Uber Member
    		  
    #4

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:04 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Inso The Jester View Post
    I recently got out of a relationship with a really nice girl we have been together for more than 5 years
    i gave up everything for her i quit my job my money i gave up my dream my time just to see her smile and hardly ever saw it she hooked up with this guy that treats her like trash and does not respect women the way they should be respected
    she left him and wanted to come back to me and i refused
    my question is
    did i do the right thing or not?
    guilt is killing me

    Yes, you did the right thing for her long-term welfare.

    Just so I have this straight in your opinion how should women be treated? With respect?
    Inso The Jester's Avatar
    Inso The Jester Posts: 54, Reputation: 2
    Junior Member
    		  
    #5

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:08 PM
    And way more than just respect
    JudyKayTee's Avatar
    JudyKayTee Posts: 46,503, Reputation: 4600
    Uber Member
    		  
    #6

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:09 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Inso The Jester View Post
    And way more than just respect
    And an example of that respect is the way you talk to people on AMHD, both women and men?

    You gave up your job just to see her smile? What does that mean? The thought of you unemployed, without money, made her happy?
    Inso The Jester's Avatar
    Inso The Jester Posts: 54, Reputation: 2
    Junior Member
    		  
    #7

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:11 PM
    Amhd?
    JudyKayTee's Avatar
    JudyKayTee Posts: 46,503, Reputation: 4600
    Uber Member
    		  
    #8

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Inso The Jester View Post
    Amhd?

    Look around you. Figure out where you're posting.
    Inso The Jester's Avatar
    Inso The Jester Posts: 54, Reputation: 2
    Junior Member
    		  
    #9

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:12 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    And an example of that respect is the way you talk to people on AMHD, both women and men?

    You gave up your job just to see her smile? What does that mean? The thought of you unemployed, without money, made her happy?
    No so I can spend more time with her
    Homegirl 50's Avatar
    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,794, Reputation: 2604
    Dating & Teen Expert
    		  
    #10

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:12 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Inso The Jester View Post
    Amhd?
    Ask Me Help desk This website!
    Homegirl 50's Avatar
    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,794, Reputation: 2604
    Dating & Teen Expert
    		  
    #11

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:14 PM
    So you quit your job so you could spend more time with her? How were you supporting yourself?
    Thinking back, did that make sense to you?
    Homegirl 50's Avatar
    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,794, Reputation: 2604
    Dating & Teen Expert
    		  
    #12

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:17 PM
    How old are you?
    Inso The Jester's Avatar
    Inso The Jester Posts: 54, Reputation: 2
    Junior Member
    		  
    #13

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:17 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    So you quit your job so you could spend more time with her? How were you supporting yourself?
    Thinking back, did that make sense to you?
    To be honest no
    After I reveiwed my life now I know how stupid I was
    JudyKayTee's Avatar
    JudyKayTee Posts: 46,503, Reputation: 4600
    Uber Member
    		  
    #14

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    How old are you?

    I suspect she saw the bigger picture - this person is truly flawed. Bad decision after worse decision. In and out of jail (admittedly). https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-...ce-698171.html
    Inso The Jester's Avatar
    Inso The Jester Posts: 54, Reputation: 2
    Junior Member
    		  
    #15

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:18 PM
    I prefer that I stay unknown to everyone
    JudyKayTee's Avatar
    JudyKayTee Posts: 46,503, Reputation: 4600
    Uber Member
    		  
    #16

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:19 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Inso The Jester View Post
    I prefer that i stay unknown to everyone

    I know, you keep saying that. Who are you talking to? I don't see you being asked that question... again.

    Oh, I see - your age would tip us off to your Country. Got it.
    Inso The Jester's Avatar
    Inso The Jester Posts: 54, Reputation: 2
    Junior Member
    		  
    #17

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:22 PM
    I have my reasons
    Homegirl 50's Avatar
    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,794, Reputation: 2604
    Dating & Teen Expert
    		  
    #18

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:45 PM
    I think you are young thinking you are a deep thinker.
    Inso The Jester's Avatar
    Inso The Jester Posts: 54, Reputation: 2
    Junior Member
    		  
    #19

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:49 PM
    No not really
    Alty's Avatar
    Alty Posts: 28,317, Reputation: 5972
    Pets Expert
    		  
    #20

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:55 PM
    Based on the posts I'd guess 17, or younger.
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 
Page 1 of 2 1 > Last»

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search


Check out some similar questions!

Is he just being nice because he's feeling guilty? [ 3 Answers ]

So I finally moved out most of my essentials from our old apartment. It has been 4 weeks now since the break up. He offered to help me move and offered to help me pack since together we had so much stuff to sort through. He offered to give me money so I can buy a car and offered to give me rides to...

Feeling Guilty.should I? [ 11 Answers ]

Hi About 6 weeks ago my first ever girlfriend broke up with me for reasons which completely hurt me. I am completing a PhD in Physics, and taking come time to do this. I also suffer a little bit from anxiety, which I take medication for. I am a mad scientist! Lol. Anyway, my ex called me up,...

Feeling Guilty Need Advise [ 4 Answers ]

Please tell me how do I overcome this. I am in my mid twenties in love with this guy who is in his early twenties. We want to get married but know that there is a dim / zero possibility of this happening due to age and certain reasons. We talk to each other daily at night briefing each other...

Feeling guilty [ 2 Answers ]

My mother in law has left her husband to come and live in the same country that she was bought up in so she can be with her children and grand children she feels very guilty even though she is very happy. Should she feel guilty for doing what she wants to do. She was very miserable in the overseas...

View more questions Search