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    Nonagon Posts: 13, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 22, 2007, 08:40 PM
    Ask her out or forget
    There is this girl and I like her but I don't want to like her. See, we went out once before and broke up when she was cheating on me. We almoost got back together again but she thought I was a jerk for flirting with other girls. She had an attitude about that for a long time. Now she's over it and has started flirting with me increasingly often. Now here's the thing, I don't know what I like about her I just like her. One voice inside my head tells me to go for it, ask her out. The other one says don't cause it will all end bad. Also, if I start going out with her again her parents would think I'm aggressive(im not, she's the aggressive one but they wouldn't think that about their own child. I'm actually a really good kid but they don't think that) and would accuse me of stuff I don't do. And I only like her when I'm around her, any other time I couldn't care less. So should I ask her out or forget about her?
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    Jan 22, 2007, 09:16 PM
    My advice is to forget it. Not worth all the problems and headaches if you decide to go back to that.

    Joe
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    Jan 24, 2007, 05:56 PM
    :) All I have to say is always listen to your heart your heart will always tell you good luck but if you can not figure it out then I am going to tell you not to ask her out obvously you do not really like her that much or you would be thibking of he all of the time
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    Jan 24, 2007, 06:30 PM
    If you really like her go a head ask her out but if you think that this will end really bad then forget about it . You could give it a shot... and hope it won't end bad

    So like danielleluvzu said listen to your heart and then decide
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    Jan 24, 2007, 07:15 PM
    Nonagon,
    Just to like a girl is itself a gift, which you treasure in your heart. What you don't like is to be tormented by this feelings. However, all best creative lines were invented while the authors were inspired by someone they liked really much. I would recommend to wait and see. Test your feelings. If you are sure about yourself then you tell her. Girls too like REAL feelings. If she says no, then, well, you still can thank her for challenging your soul. Hope this was of help.
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    Nonagon Posts: 13, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 24, 2007, 09:11 PM
    Thanks guys. I appreciate the advice and will go with it.
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    Jan 25, 2007, 01:09 AM
    My ADVICE to you is to move on and try to erase her from your life. Sometimes girls, who aren't mature, like to play games. The truth is if she cheated on you once then she will more than likely cheat on you again. I know it hurts and it sucks but its better to have a broken heart now than a broken life later.
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    Jan 25, 2007, 06:45 PM
    Well I think you should become her friend, let her know what she missed. Also you're a guy, guys need to know if girls like them, that's when they ask them out. One more thing listen to your heart it's the most impotant thing.GUD LUCK
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    Jan 28, 2007, 01:38 AM
    I think you should just forget about her! Once a cheater always a cheater. If you don't really really like here, its not worth all the trouble and drama. Especially if you think its going to end badly. Don't set yourself up for heartbreak. Find someone who you really truly care about, and someone who feels the same about you!

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