[jwec]

Ok so there is this girl that goes to my school that I found on Facebook. She is very beautiful and stunning! We've messaged back and forth and told her that she is pretty and I can tell she adores it! So I messaged her saying if she wanted to talk for a bit after school. She told me where her locker was and we did talk. She seemed kind of nervous I can tell because this was the first time we've meet. And I did try to be funny and start a conversation. She replied to me very quietly but I can tell she wanted to talk to me. So I had the courage to ask her if she wanted to hang sometime like hang at the mall and get a bite to eat. With me paying of course! She said yes so I'm pretty much happy with that. Like 20 minutes after I got home, she texted me saying that she was really happy to see me. So this MUST be a good sign that she is interested in me right?

But what do you guys think I should do. Were probably going to hang out at the mall for awhile and eat at the food court. I don't want her to feel nervous because she is shy and yes I am too nervous and shy but I do the best to be a fun guy! Any suggestions on what I should do? Help!!

[anzalpe]

For what u say I can tell she really likes you, so you should tell her she doesn't have to be so nervous that its normal and you are too, and you also should tell her that you like her it would calm her down. So relax and have a good time hanging out. Good luck!

[Devorameira]

Don't fret about it. Just walk around the mall, eat slowly, and talk. Let the evening be all about getting acquainted - nothing more!

[jwec]

Do u think it would be OK if I give her a hug or something. I mean this is my first real date (kinda), I don't want any screw ups...

[anzalpe]

A little hug would be nice I think. But nothing more! Don't want to make the girl think you are a player! And be really nice to her. A total gentleman;) good luck!

[jwec]

Ok! I posted a previous question a few weeks ago if this girl likes me. Well here is the scope of what I found out about her. She is a sophomore that goes to my school. She has a Facebook and is friends with literally everyone! All the freshmen, sophmores, juniors, and seniors on her friends list! Every time she posts a picture of hereself, almost everyone wannabe guy tells her how pretty she is and everything! It drives me nuts! She is very photogenic I heard also. So I told her if she wanted to talk and chat for a bit during school. And she did wanted too. So I told her to meet me at my locker which is right across the room where she had a study hall period! She said she will meet me at my locker. Well here is me going to my locker to meet her and... she is not there! And the class she was in was straight across from my locker! She is very shy in public from what I can tell. But she comments and likes EVERYTHING on Facebook! But usually I'm the one who is always messaging or texing her first. I also made plans if she wanted to hang out and eat at the food court in the mall and see a movie. And she always says in our text "I'll do my best." I feel like she likes me but she is afraid/shy to see me or talk to me. Trust me, I get nervous too when I see her, but I act like the most happiest person alive when I talk to her. What should I do? Every time I make plans with her, usually they never happen or I never see her. Help!!

[Homegirl 50]

Leave her alone. If she gets curious as to why, she will ask you.
She may not be as interested or as shy as you think, but if she is shy that is no excuse for being rude. You don't make plans to meet somewhere and then don't show up with no explanation.

[talaniman]

Aren't you just assuming she likes you? How did the mall thing go? It was a few weeks, what's been happening between you?

[jwec]

"You don't make plans to meet somewhere and then don't show up with no explanation."

I waited for her. She didn't show up!

And for talaniman, I did ask her but she had to babysitt that week and it didn't really work out. Since then I'm trying to make plans with her but they are not really working out either cause she is busy or she is too shy maybe.

[talaniman]

I don't know about shy, if she is that popular, but I suppose that could be true. Can you talk over the phone? Could be she isn't allowed to date but for now just keep getting to know her, and hope she doesn't have another interest, but you won't know unless you learn more.

Maybe she just wants a friend, and not a boyfriend. That's a real possibility, and a good explanation for her actions so far. In that case you adjust your approach, as friends is a cool thing at your age. The more the better.

[jwec]

When I see her at school walking in the hallways, I hardly see any guy talking to her. She usually walks by herself most of the time. But on Facebook, she is like a totally different person!