[lesleem]

OK so there is this guy how I dated but wasn't a very good relationship. Two days ago he told me that he loved me and wanted to go back out but first wanted to become better friends before we date again. So I was like OK sure that sounds nice then three day later he goes to this dance and he ends up kissing this other girl and then I text him the next day and I ask him do you like her he goes I don't know and then I tell him I know he kissed her and he says that he sort of likes her. Than I tell him that I don't understand why you would tell me that you love/like me a lot then two days later kiss another and plus he didn't tell me that he like her so I'm thinking yes he only like me but he also likes her and then I just stop texting him and then later that day I go on Facebook and her staus said why? Why do I like you so much? I don't know... hahaha. Then I thought to myself hopefully they don't go out, which I really think they are because he's the type of the guy that really wants to get laid and stuff and she is the type of girl that will do anything for a guy even if she doesn't like him... and I really like him but don't know what to do. I really want to go back out with him but I don't know if he wants to anymore because he kissed her and now I'm just wondering does he still like me .how do I make him like me more than her and why did he tell me that he like me and then kiss her please I need advice what do I do. Does he still like me do you think that he will still date me

[martinizing2]

If his main concern is getting laid...
Dump him now before he really has a chance to hurt you.
You don't need someone who wants you for a sex toy,
Or a dummy who will keep taking him back between girls.

Forget him and find someone who respects you and really cares how you feel.

Your BF doesn't really care for you or respect ,now and will not in the future.

Don't just walk away... run.

[lesleem]

OK my friend likes this dude and its kind of the same situation but he doesn't really mind if he doesn't get like but she wants to know if they are going to date or if he still even likes her

[lesleem]

Oops srry there's a lot of mistakes in that commentss... lol srry about that

[lesleem]

I like this guy but I don't understand him
He told ne that he really liked me a lot and wanted to go out but at the same time he also likes this other girl and kissed her at the dance on Friday... so I yelled at him and told himthat that was etremely rude and he shouldn't treat me like that. Do you think he still likes me... do you think that we will go out... im really confused

[lesleem]

How do impress a guy that likes me a little bit but also likes someone else at the same time
And I only have one class with him
He is very sporty and romantic and smart n funny

[lesleem]

We don't know what to do for going on dates where shouldb we go and we have gone to the movies before and we can't drive

[Just Looking]

In another of your posts, you referred to him as "the type of the guy that really wants to get laid". That should answer your question for you. You should avoid this type of guy. He doesn't really like anyone now - he's just looking for sex. You are too young to get involved sexually. You are just going to get hurt. Find a boy that will treat you right and have fun, not someone who will use you to get what he wants and then move on.

[Just Looking]

lesleem does not find this helpful : thanks but I'm talking about different boys in each one to see which one is better

So there are two different boys involved and they both kissed another girl at a dance on Friday night. Maybe you shouldn't go after either one. I also read that you don't drive, so it sounds like you are all young teenagers. What's the rush? If these boys are both saying they like you, but then kissing other girls, don't you think they are both just trying to get with a girl? It doesn't matter if it's you or the other girl to them. I know when I was your age (and that wasn't that long ago :) ), I liked boys who liked me, but I also wanted to be able to trust them.

[Enigma1999]

I think he wants the best of both worlds. He wants you and at the same time he wants the other girl.

It's up to you on how you want to be treated, I don't think you should waste time on him.

If he really likes you, then he wouldn't have his lips on any one else's.

[Cat1864]

lesleem does not find this helpful : thanks but I'm talking about different boys in each one to see which one is better

Here is a hard fact of life that you aren't going to like. IF there are two boys and you are comparing them to see which one is better, then they are going to feel entitled to do the same. It isn't good to get mad about someone doing the same thing you essentially are.

I don't think you know what you want and he doesn't either. When that happens the best thing to do is to let the possible relationship go before more drama happens to turn friends into less than friendly acquaintances. Once everything has settled down and you each have your thoughts straightened out, see if there is anything there to build a relationship with.

[sanborn21]

Well if he plays sports you can go to his game or the puyallup fair and have a parent or an older silbling drive you

[Cat1864]

You impress him and the rest of the world by being yourself.

You shouldn't feel the need to change or compete to get the attention of someone who already likes you. Competing with another female for his attention only serves to feed his ego and cause him to be even more indecisive.

[martinizing2]

Why wish him on a friend?
Find new guys... this one will not be good for anybody

Also please answer in the answer box not the comments please

[martinizing2]

Is this the same guy as in your other post?

[martinizing2]

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/go/engage.php?do=answers

[talaniman]

How old are you??