[lovesit09]

Okay so I've been dating this guy off and on for 2 years and this year I told myself that I was not going to date him but he started liking me again and I did to so we went out for a month and he broke up with me for a stupid reason... the day after he wanted me back but I was a little cautious about it... so we talked a little more about possibly dating again but I noticed him talking to my friend some but I didn't think anything about it because I thought you know they were just friends but later I noticed they were talking a lot so I decided I should ask about it and then he just snapped at me so then he kept getting mad at me over little things which I think was just to get me away from him and then him and my friend were all over each other at school so I blew up and we got in a major fight... so then I decided to forgive him cause I liked him a lot we started talking again and aafter he would tell me all these good things I would see him all over another girl including my friend he even sent her this santa gram we do at school saying "Im glad im in your life...." which made me reeallly upset so I just gave up on him... so now its my be day and he sent me a text that said happy b-day & asked me who I was datin..? What is that suppose to mean?? should I just totally forget about him or what?? :confused:

[Bluerose]

lovesit09,

Sounds like he is messing you about. Either that or he just doesn't know what he wants right now. If I were you, I would just get on with my life and let him get on with his.

If you come back together all well and good. But I have a rule - I will hold my hand out to someone once and if they knocked it away, I will hold it out again and if it is knocked away again that was the end of it - they had their chance. Other people are apt to treat us like we treat ourselves - treat yourself with respect and love.

[platanoyatlanta]

I Think You Should Just Give Up B/c He Messes Around With Other Girls And Comes Back To You B/c He Knows He Has You On His Hands Look For Somebody Else That Treats You How You Deserve To Be Treat It