[EGCO7]

Hey I have a little problem that is driving me crazy
I met this girl in the 8th grade and I talked to her but just like friends, not too much.
She liked me that year and I didn't care because for me it was just about hot chicks etc.
But now in 9th grade (I should be in 10th) and she changed a lot... we started talking a lot before the easter vacations and I started to like her. Once, a day before a friend's birthday party I todl her how I felt and she was like? Because she thinks she is unactrative and she is so beautiful everybody thinks that but she just thinks otherwise, however she was like? Because she was thinking 'how could he like me, I am so unatractive' whitch is not true, and she wanted to make out with me the next day, at tha party. I did wanted too so we set a 'date'. Everithing went fine and we did it at night, because I had spent the hole day trying to kiss her. She is just shy because she had never kissed no one before me so I understand that this is new to her.
Now the school is back and at the first week I wanted to be with her so bad thar I pressured her. I felt bad about it but everything is fine now. The problem is when I'm with her I can't act like I was her friend like before, I can't fake that nothing is happening and we talked about it and we were sad because praticly we just met to make out.
But the real problem is that we love each other and when I talk about having a relationship she says she's not ready. I can wait for her for like 5 years but I want to be her boyfriend so bad! Please give me some advice... I don't want to hurt her

[talaniman]

Young man, what you call love is raging hormones, that make for some intense physical feelings, that are made stronger by making out.

If she isn't ready, she just isn't ready, but she is ready to experiment with making out, and that may be all you get. You seem to have the girls attention, so what will the title of boyfriend get you?

Oh I get it, you want exclusive rights to keep her from making out with other guys right? Of course I am.

[Homegirl 50]

I think you just want to continue making out with her.
If she is not ready for a relationship, leave her alone.
What you want is not the most important thing in the world.

[EGCO7]

I think you just want to continue making out with her.
If she is not ready for a relationship, leave her alone.
What you want is not the most important thing in the world.

I would... but things have changed... she broke my heart... she was lying she liked another guy and was "playing" with me...
But well, that's past, life goes on! (but I can't forget her I really loved her)

[Homegirl 50]

She did say she didn't want a relationship with you. But you live and learn. This will pass.