[AManWithNoName]

Latley, I don't know, I guess I've been kind of depressed
I'm allways worried my girlfreind will leave me, or cheat on me, I feel I'm too clingy to her for my own good and I may scare her away
I've been crying latley, I don't know why, just stress, I feel alone even though shees there, I love her so much, too much maybe, I keep thinking about the future, me and her and I never see one, I know eventually shel leave, and break my heart, or worse, il break hers, I don't like hurting people
I feel so bad, depresssed, I'm normmaly not like this, I need help

[Torrid13]

How long have you been feeling like this?

:(

[AManWithNoName]

About two or three weekr

[Torrid13]

Okay, take a deep breath. Everything's going to be okay.

First of all, remember who your girlfriend is with: YOU! You, the handsome devil that you are. If she wanted to leave, she would. Have confidence in yourself and know you're worth being with.

Secondly, have faith in her. Being clingy is the worst thing you could do when you're insecure about your lover. Is there any reason why you're afraid she'll leave you? Has she given any hints? If not, then don't worry about it. It's harder than it sounds, but just give each other space; see other friends during the week, too. That way, the clingyness can be reduced, and you'll probably feel better, too.

Thirdly, have faith in your relationship, but be realistic, too. There are many people that are dating someone that can't see them in their future. This can be either because they don't share the same goals, beliefs, etc, or it's most likely because they are too immature to really know what they want. Or just too young. How old are you, and how long have you two been dating?

Remember that just because we date someone doesn't mean it's going to last forever. People outgrow relationships everyday because they grow, and this isn't bad.

But also remember to enjoy the relationship while you're in it! Worrying only kills the happiness and prevents you from getting close to others when it causes such fear!

Relax. You're awesome.

If you're continuing to feel this way in a couple of weeks, though, I would suggest seeing a psychiatrist. Deep breath.

[HelpinHere]

Just so you know, as I'm sure many people posted on any other threads you started, you will fall "in love" with more girls, and they will be "the one" all over again. So, if it doesn't work now, don't give up.

Anyway, just enjoy her while you can. I'm not saying use her, I'm completely against that, I'm saying quit worrying so much, and start having fun. Don't do anything to ruin your relationship, and have fun with her. Just take life as it comes, instead of worrying so much about the future.

Good Luck

[AManWithNoName]

Hey, thank you, I'm 16, wev been dating for two months

[Torrid13]

No worries then, Mr. Eastwood.

Your relationship is still young, and these fears are normal. You two are still getting comfortable!

Like I said, most relationships don't last forever, especially at that age, so don't beat yourself up if it does end. You'll find other hotties as you grow.

But really, just kick back and enjoy the ride of a new relationship and getting to know her!

Good luck. :)

[N0help4u]

Go with the flow and don't stress she could take you worries as insecurity and want to dump you. So you need to be strong and enjoy life then she will love you for it.