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izumi_puppy · Jul 22, 2009, 06:15 AM

There's this guy I like and this other guy I love. I don't know what to do. The guy's firend says I should date him, but I don't want to hurt the other guy.

What should I do?

Justwantfair · Jul 22, 2009, 06:16 AM

Just go for which ever one asks you out first.

redhed35 · Jul 22, 2009, 06:20 AM

We can't help who we fall in love with,but maybe its never going to happen there..
You never know what you may be missing out on with the guy you like..

So,your options are... wait until one of them asks you out.

Ask one of them out.

Do nothing.

slapshot_oi · Jul 22, 2009, 06:39 AM

Pick names out of a hat or flip a coin, a lot of important decisions in life are made using one of these methods.

88sunflower · Jul 22, 2009, 06:42 AM

Don't worry about hurting any body. Follow your heart and do what you want to do.

cdavison · Jul 22, 2009, 06:44 AM

Be with the one you think you'll be most happy with. If you love this other guy, then why even consider the one? Sit down and just weigh your feelings and decide who you really want to be with. Think about their characters and yours, and decide who you are most compatible with.

Good luck, choosing.

adam_89 · Jul 22, 2009, 07:16 AM

So, you say you love one? Does that mean you are dating the guy and love him and have started having feelings for this other guy? Or you just think you are in love with one and like the other? If that is the case then why think about the one you like when you already love one? If you are dating the one guy you love then Never Leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love

klynntuck · Jul 22, 2009, 07:30 AM

You have to make a choice. You don't want to lead them both on and end up losing them both. Decide which one you like the most. Don't just look at his looks, but look deeper than than, Look at his personality and his mentality. Only you can make the final choice, Hope you pick the right guy!;)

88sunflower · Jul 22, 2009, 07:47 AM

I don't understand if you love one, why aren't you choosing love? The like might only be temporary, a crush, the thrill of what if's.

izumi_puppy · Jul 22, 2009, 08:28 AM

Originally Posted by 88sunflower

I dont understand if you love one, why arent you choosing love? The like might only be temporary, a crush, the thrill of what if's.

Well they both love me and I both love them but I don't want to hurt their feelings

Justwantfair · Jul 22, 2009, 08:33 AM

Earlier you only liked one and loved the other, seems an easy choice to me.

88sunflower · Jul 23, 2009, 06:39 AM

Originally Posted by Justwantfair

Earlier you only liked one and loved the other, seems an easy choice to me.

Exactly what I was thinking. Where is the choice if you only liked one like you originally said.

N0help4u · Jul 23, 2009, 10:02 AM

Just because you are interested in both of them doesn't mean that both of them would be interested in going out with you. Go with the one that shows the most interest back.

tosign001 · Jul 23, 2009, 10:12 AM

All what you have to do is to follow your mind and am sure you will surely get the best to date.