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    bandgeek121 Posts: 36, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 25, 2009, 12:48 PM
    He wants to kiss me but I think it's too soon
    What should I do. I think he is moving WAY too fast for a middle school relationship. We have only been going out for almost a week and my friends and his friends are telling me that he wants to kiss me! I AM NOT READY FOR THAT!! I feel like I barely know him because we don't talk much because he's shy and I'm shy. How do I tell him that I'm not ready to kiss yet with out hurting his feelings too much? I'm fine with hugging though, but not kissing yet. :confused:
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    Mar 25, 2009, 01:10 PM

    You either just tell him or when you see that he is trying to kiss you, you can duck and only offer him your cheek.
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    Mar 25, 2009, 01:16 PM

    Well, I tried to rate you there Justy but I got to spread the rep. I agree with Justy though.

    Maybe you could just write him a note since you are both shy. I am sure he will understand. If not, there is many fish in the sea. Trust me! Good Luck!
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    Mar 25, 2009, 05:52 PM

    I agree with the two above;

    Tell him how you feel. Never let a guy force you to do something you aren't comfortable with.

    Good luck, and let us know how it all goes
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    Mar 25, 2009, 05:58 PM

    Good for you. We've heard from too many teens who have sex after a week,

    NEVER let any guy do anything you are uncomfortable with.
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    Mar 25, 2009, 07:48 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bandgeek121 View Post
    what should i do. i think he is moving WAY too fast for a middle school relationship. we have only been going out for almost a week and my friends and his friends are telling me that he wants to kiss me! I AM NOT READY FOR THAT!!!! i feel like i barely know him because we don't talk much because he's shy and i'm shy. how do i tell him that i'm not ready to kiss yet with out hurting his feelings too much? i'm fine with hugging though, but not kissing yet. :confused:

    You sound like a very mature girl and a very smart one. I wish you could tell me in a few years how your life has turned out. I think it will be great if you continue to make smart decisions like the one you have made about kissing.
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