[palamutyan_18]

OK I know this guy since I was one years old we grew up together and he was like a brother to me his 21 right now and I am 17 years old. So one day I was alone and he knew that I was going to be alone he called me. We were talking and all his like I am going to come to your house I was like naw bro your lying his like no ill be there in 5 min. I was like OK but I was surprised. So he came he was really nervous I was like what’s going on his like nothing and he was getting closer and closer when we were sitting and his heart was beating so fast that I could hear it. And he just put his hand around me and he put his face on my face. I was like I can't believe this is happening. But he didn’t say anything at all. So I was shocked and when he was going to go home he hugged me really tight he wanted to kiss me but I said no so he kissed my chick and left. I am sorry I am writing so long but I really do need help. But the next day when I called him his like nothing happened were still brother and sister. But don’t tell your mom that I came and stuff. But he said that I will act the same way like before. So I don’t know and his not acting the same way its different the way his looking at me and stuff. So can you please tell me why his acting this way and he didn’t tell me that he likes me. And why is there times that you could tell he really likes me and there is times that you would think he doest like me at all? And also in front of me his talking to girls. Can you tell me what’s going on please.:)

[JoeCanada76]

There are many people who are afraid to come out and say they like somebody.. Especially somebody that they have considered a close friend. They are afraid to lose the friendship and be rejected. There is always a chanch the other person does not feel the same way, but the only way to find out is to approach that person. Sometimes it may become the best experience two people could have and it ends up working out and at other times it is just not meant to be. It all depends on what you want. Do you want to take it further or even open yourself to the possibility or just leave it the way it is. If he tries it again, if you do not like it then put him in his place and tell him if he wants to remain cool with you that he needs to get that idea out of his head. Crushes, and being so close to somebody does develop feelings, but many people are afraid to reveal them because of rejection. So it is up to you how far this may go.

Joe

[CaptainForest]

I agree with what Joe said.

The ball is in your court now.

Do you want something with this guy? If you do, go for it.

If not, next time he goes that way, speak up and say you aren't interested.

[palamutyan_18]

Thanks you guys are so sweet thanks for giving me good answers

[Blazingsun]

Personally I'd bring it up and talk with him the sooner the better.

Otherwise what happened could become very awkward for one of you and start possibly damaging the friendship that was so strong before.

Questions that remain unanswered tend to become answered by ones own mind and sometimes that's not the best thing, as insecurities and whatnot can effect how you will perceive it.