Check out some similar questions!

lkarla_05 · Nov 30, 2008, 08:53 PM

Hi,
I think I have a problem with guys. Once I get in a relationship I only last like 1 or 2 months with them, then after that I get tired of them or something then I cheat on them. I have cheated on guys a lot of times even though I really love that person. I hate doing this but I just can't help myself, its like I want every guy or something?? Would you consider me a player?? :p

J_9 · Nov 30, 2008, 08:55 PM

Sweetie, you are only in 8th grade... This happens to most 8th graders, you are still learning how to have a relationship. It'll be a while before you actually have a long term relationship.

lkarla_05 · Nov 30, 2008, 09:05 PM

Well I think the reason why I might do this might be because once a guy did that to me... nd didn't know what to do... is just really hard 2 explain the feeling when it cuns to cheating!!

jrsg · Dec 1, 2008, 05:08 PM

For cheating, I think it is just a thing of self control. If you find yourself liking another guy, then break up with whoever the current boyfriend is, and move on to the next.

In grade 8, you don't need a "stable" or "long term" relationship. But it isn't necessary to cheat. Although the relationships are young and temporary, cheating still hurts.

NItEMArE129 · Dec 1, 2008, 07:37 PM

well if you think that it's because u got cheated on, then think of it this way. Is it fair to put that feeling that you've experienced (when you've been cheated on) that you can't even put into words onto someone else? How can you possibly (exaggeration but I find that exaggerating things to myself helps them hit home =]) live without a guilty conscience while you make other people feel that horrible?