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tntdynamite · Nov 21, 2008, 11:30 AM

Ok, so I have this friend who I'll call "Zach." So, Zach and I have been friends for awhile, but lately he's been extremely annoying. I know that he likes me, I've already turned him down, but he still won't leave me alone. Wanting me to sit by him at lunch, constantly talking to me in class, waiting for me at my locker, calling me pretty in every language he knows how, and leaning all up on me. It is extremely annoying, and I've acted annoyed, like not sitting by him, not talking to him as much, got mad, and he still doesn't get it. I've told him he's annoying but he still won't quit. I don't want to end up screaming at him, but I can not keep going on like this. And the worst part is that I read my horoscope for all of December, and it says that a friend has been annoying me lately (Zach), and Mars will make it impossible to avoid confrontation on the 5th, that is the day of a major dance at our school. I've already dreaded telling him no if he asks to dance with me, but now I'm scared I will end up being so annoyed at that point I'll just blow up in front of the whole school, or seriously hurt him. What do I do without sounding cheesy or hurting him? I'm not good at the whole talking about feelings, so I try to avoid the whole thing but I don't think I can keeping avoiding this. HELP ME!

Justwantfair · Nov 21, 2008, 11:46 AM

I don't know what grade you are in but you have been honest with this boy and he isn't getting the hint. Your best bet would be to enlist in a friend, preferably an adult you both trust, to assist in telling him nicely again that you are not interested and if he can't quit trying to let you know he is interested than you won't be able to be friends anymore.

xxariesxx · Nov 21, 2008, 05:19 PM

You haven't seriously told him he's been bothering you. You've hinted at it, you told him he was annoying, but I highly doubt he thinks you're actually serious.

This is one of those times you need to take him aside in a private situation and tell him that you are seriously annoyed with him, and that he needs to give you some space. You can't expect him to take you seriously unless you have a serious talk with him, away from other people, so he will know you're not just trying to put up a front either.

Fr_Chuck · Nov 21, 2008, 06:00 PM

First don't take horoscopes seriously there are 12 written that are suppose to fit every person alive.

But you have to be perfectly honest, tell him if he does not stop you can not stay his friend.

tntdynamite · Feb 17, 2009, 12:22 PM

[QUOTE=Fr_Chuck;1387380]First don't take horoscopes seriously there are 12 written that are suppose to fit every person alive./[QUOTE]

I'm not saying anything against you, but that horoscope was right. That was funny. Luckily I controlled my anger and didn't go off on him. But I was seriously 2 seconds from doing so. But that's been like, 1 of 5 correct horoscopes. Why that one? Ha ha. He's backed off, he asked me to dance like 50 times and I kept avoiding him, or turning him down. Eventually he backed off.