[pink11]

Okay so the boy I really like is going out with this other
Girl that has a whole bunch of classes with him and I have one a day with him
But his brother tells me all the time that he sometimes talks about me saying I'm cute
etc. and he told me he used to like me
I didn't even think of this boy in that way I mean we were really good friends and could talk
About anything together then over the summer he got me too like him and was telling me he thought I was the right girl for him but now we barley even talk, we look at each other but then I look away cause he's going with that girl so should I just forget about him?

And I'm 14 and he's 15
But in the same grade

[linnealand]

You can feel whatever you want, but don't put yourself in the middle of them. It would only result in trouble. If they break up of their own volition, you can tell him how you feel. In the meantime, I think you can still be friends.

[irene94]

If you really like this boy go for it but don't make it obeous talk to him make him really like you so much that he will break up with the other girl

[linnealand]

Hiya, pink! Well, it's been my experience that girls who try to control their boyfriends like that don't stay their girlfriends for long.

From what you've said, I have a feeling that he's going to get tired of being controlled soon enough. I wouldn't be surprised by a break up here.

If you can find a way to talk with him somehow, just as a friend and without trying to change or manipulate the situation, let him know that you miss his friendship.

If you do this, however, use lots of caution if the subject of his girlfriend comes up. I think if he talks about it first, it would be easier (and better) for you. You should only be speaking to him as a friend with his best interests at heart.

Let things play out on their own. Also, even though you like this boy, don't wait around for him. Just keep heading toward your goals, and then good things will follow (including good boys). Good luck!

[brokenheart1991]

Look pink I think you should go for it because if you really like him and you think he still likes you and if it might even be love you never no it might be for the better that you together