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    nikki_lynn17 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 11, 2008, 10:38 AM
    Im seventeen and my boyfriend is fourteen is it wrong?
    Hello,
    My Name is Nikki I'm 17 years old. And I have a very serious question for everyone. My future very much depends on it.

    Im 17 as I said and I'm dating this really amazing guy. I have had many boyfriends and none has made me feel the way he does. He impresses me in every aspect and there is not one thing good or bad that I do not absolutely love about him.
    But I have one problem...
    He's only 14 :/
    I know that sounds bad considering I'm going to be 18 in January.
    But we do not have sex or anything and I really love him. And he wants more than anything for us to have a long term relationship. My mom is okay with it because I'm happy and he is happy. But I don't know how the law will feel once I'm an adult.
    Do I have to break up with the one person that makes my world go round because he was unfortunately born a little later than I was? If both of our parents give concent or us dating is it okay?
    Pleaseee pleasee tell me what to do.
    And its not like I'm a pedo or anything I can care less about sex or anything because I love him for him not all that I will wait if need be. That's how much I want to be with him.
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    Sep 11, 2008, 10:40 AM
    If you aren't having sex, and don't plan on it for some time, there is nothing legally wrong with what you are doing as far as I know... If no one has concerns about it, I don't see any problem with it. The only trouble spot is sex, but you said you could "care-less" at this point. The only time I can see that being an issue is further on down the road if yours, or his, feelings change about the subject...
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    Sep 11, 2008, 01:20 PM
    If both of our parents give concent for us dating is it okay?
    You may not have my blessings, but being above board, and honest counts for something.
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    Aug 30, 2009, 10:17 AM

    Is he mature for his age? My boyfriends only 14 and he acts like a complete idiot sometimes.

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