[mydrinknmy2step]

Hey guys.. I've got something on my mind that I've wanted to fix for a week now.
So about a week ago my high school team had a track meet and we all had to stay in a hotel. I was in my hotel room with my roommates when I wanted to go on a walk with this boy. I texted him and he told me to meet me outside the room, so we went on a little walk and then we hugged.. which led to us making out. Well, that must have been the most amazing night of my life, our friendship I guess you could call it, reached an all time high. Well, on the bus ride back the next night, my roommate pulled me aside and asked what was going on between me and him and I told her nothing! But she knew... she kept asking me if we made out and of course, I'm a bad lyer... she got it out of me. The next day, this boy texted me, asking me if I could promise not to tell anyone about our little hookup. I reassured him that it was our little secret.. not thinking that the girl who found out would tell anyone. I was wrong... she had told people. When I got to school on Monday, the boy asked me why I told the girl who told everyone about us. I told him I didn't.. and he got upset saying "she just told me you told her...why are you lying to my face" and I said I'm not! I promise. And he said "this makes me not want to talk to you anymore." and walked away. I haven't really talked to him since last Monday... I have no idea if its over or not but I really don't want him to be upset with me anymore. I really miss him but he doesn't want to talk to me... what should I do? :(

[ampersandra]

Just tell him the truth. He already gave you a few chances to admit the truth but you just kept on lying. Admit your fault and then explain what happened. Tell him that your roommate was trying to get the secret out of you. That said, why is he so adamant about keeping it a secret in the first place? What does he have to hide?

[Yours To Forget]

You should probably give the guy some space. It's not like you're in a real relationship-you made out once. It may help things if you apologize for lying. He has a right to be angry with you for lying about what you did. The guy also doesn't seem to be very interested in a relationship with you, since he asked you to keep your kiss a secret, and having people find out about what happened seems to be his worst nightmare. After apologizing my advice would be to back off, and if he doesn't come around, it wasn't meant to be.

[mydrinknmy2step]

Ahhh OK thank you guys sooo much for all the advice :D
And you are right... im just scared to apologize a week after it happened you know? Is he going to even listen to me?

[talaniman]

If he doesn't, leave him alone.