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Valerius · Feb 24, 2008, 04:47 PM

I'm in grade 11, and I pursued a girl in my grade named Angie for a long time about 5 months ago. She really lead me on, and eventually rejected me for her ex- boyfriend who was 1 year older than me. This was heartbreaking for me.

I finally felt like I was over her, even when she broke up with that same guy.

But now, a good friend of mine has come into the picture, despite knowing about all my pursuits when they were happening. He is also 1 year older than me.

He asked me if it was all right with me, but what could I say really? I just said "it's fine with me". It is, but it isn't. I feel like he's better than me, and it's almost betrayal.

Do I have the right to be outraged?

Fondly,
Nat

N0help4u · Feb 24, 2008, 08:10 PM

No not really he did ask you if it was okay.
What COULD you say -IF she was interested in you she would have probably given you a chance by now.

Scleros · Feb 25, 2008, 04:27 PM

Technically, you can be outraged whether you have the right or not. At the very least, chalk this one up as a learning experience to not pull punches and give the polite answer to a friend when you really feel something else.

Also, kudos on the well written grammatically superior non-texting post. Maybe you should start eyeing some college women! ;)