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    nightcrawler97 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 20, 2007, 05:11 PM
    The girl I have a crush on has a boyfriend
    Well ill start at the beginning I suppose. I am a junior. About 2 months ago I had just ended a year long relationship and I'm ready to move on.

    Well I've known this other girl for a pretty long while. We grew up together and were in school together from 1st - 6th grade. Then I moved and didn't see her again until my freshman year. We ended up dating for about 5 months during the summer months and a little beyond but once school started it got hard. The reason we broke up was because it was hard to see each other since we went to different schools. And then I didn't talk to her for a year and a half. About a month ago I started talking to her again and I began to notice more and more how much I still like her. I drive up to her work and just sit up there for an hour and talk to her whenever she gets a minute. I'm taking her to a cleveland cavaliers game next week. We are hanging out Friday after work. But the problem is the boyfriend. I don't have a problem with the kid. He's cool I guess. Never really spoke with him. But I think that she still has feeling for me just by how excited she is to see me whenever we hang out. I don't want to do anything with her and I know she won't because she isn't that kind of person that would cheat. She is so amazing. She is so funny and beautiful and on top of it she's not dumb. She's taking college courses in her junior year. So I could actually have an intelligent conversation with her. She is all I talk about with my friends and I'm just hung up on her. And she has no idea. When we were dating and even before that when we were best friends we got along so well. We were a perfect match. We never fought of anything. It was a really good relationship. And since we both drive there would never be a problem of not being about to see each other.

    Does anyone have an advice. Her and her boyfriend have only been dating for less then 2 months. I don't think its very serious yet. I don't want to tell her how I feel but by the chance of ruining our friendship. I don't really want to lose her again. But I also don't want to go on without saying something and miss out on my chance. I'm not quite sure what to do. I know I'm going to want to build the relationship up a little more but I would feel so guilty if I did say anything and hurt the other guy. But if she ended up still liking me then I think it would be worth it. I don't know what to do.
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    Nov 20, 2007, 05:19 PM
    If her boyfriend brakes up with her. Have a chance 2 get 2 know her then go out with her.
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    Nov 20, 2007, 05:37 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by kellyrocks
    if her boyfriend brakes up with her. have a chance 2 get 2 know her then go out with her.
    But if she never dumps him or he never dumps her then I will never get a chance. I'm so lost as in what to do.
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    Nov 26, 2007, 05:32 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by nightcrawler97
    But if she never dumps him or he never dumps her then i will never get a chance. im so lost as in what to do.

    Find another girl.stop liking her.
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    Nov 26, 2007, 05:33 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by kellyrocks
    find another girl.stop liking her.

    Be friends

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