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    Miss lovley Posts: 125, Reputation: 5
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    Sep 23, 2007, 05:52 PM
    So I met this
    Guy in January and we made out the first day then after that I basically had to beg him to comeover and when he did all he wanted was sex but I kept giving him reason why I couldn't... 8 months later he wants to "see" me should I tell him to buzz off? Like I would like to see him just because that's me but then again he olny really wants to hook up and I'm not interested.

    Basically I need to know how to tell him I'm not interested I want to be nice about it though.

    ((oh yeaa I'm talking to someone and I really enjoy his company)):D

    I was also thinking about having the guy I'm talking to eaither call or text him saying to leave me alone? Is that childish? :confused:


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    Sep 23, 2007, 06:27 PM
    If you know the only reason he wants to see you is for sex, why is there even a question here? Tell him you're not interested.
    Aren't you the one internet dating some 20 + year old? Tell the guy to leave you alone.
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    Sep 23, 2007, 06:31 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Miss lovley
    Basically i need to know how to tell him im not interested i wanna be nice about it tho.
    Tell him simply that you are not interested. There is no reason to try and give excuses or be super nice about it. Saying you are not interested is to the point and does not provide any room for him weaseling in.


    Quote Originally Posted by Miss lovley
    I was also thinking about having the guy im talking to eaither call or text him saying to leave me alone? is that childish? :confused:


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    That is extraordinarily childish. If you mature enough to date someone who is 25 or whatever he is then you should be mature enough to handle your own dirty work.
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    Sep 23, 2007, 07:03 PM
    Firstly, you shouldn't have made out with a guy the first day you met him, but since that has already been done... There is no need for you to be nice to this guy. He obviously only wants one thing, and considering you are talking to someone else, be respectful to him and tell this guy to buzz off
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    Sep 23, 2007, 07:05 PM
    Thank you I sent him one and told him I'm happy without him in my life
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    Sep 23, 2007, 07:39 PM
    Well done
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    Sep 23, 2007, 08:00 PM
    If he comes back around... tell him that again. Be a broken record if you have to... he will get the hint.
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