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    Jun 17, 2011, 12:29 PM
    We are really good friends, I love her but, she has a boyfriend...
    OK, soooo I'm in love with this girl. And I have been in love with her for a very long time. Before she did'n know I existed. And she is in my class too. So I see her at school every day at school. Not we were at this school trip. We were a lot together and now we are friends. After this school trip she ask'd if I was in love with someone. And I said that I was in love with her. The I ask'd if she felt the same for me. And she said that she was in love with me too. Then she said that she was waiting for me to take the next step. But I didn't. I was to scared. And this is the first time I'm really in love and all that. Now some weeks later she found this other boy. Not she I taken. And I'm still in love. And I think she knows. So I don't know what to do. I have waited for this for 2-3 yrs and then I did'n take step. I really like her and a lot! And I really want her. What to do? I really need help. By the way sorry for band english.
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    Jun 18, 2011, 06:24 AM
    You should ask her out because you both like each other and she told you that she was waiting for you to take the next step. She probably won't ask you out because girls would rather have the guy ask them out than having to do it themselves (I know because I'm a girl). So just ask her out she can only say yes or no.
    Good Luck!
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    Jun 19, 2011, 12:24 PM
    But she is in a relationship with someone /; should I wait and see how far her relationship will go or should I ask her out? (btw. I have trid before, and that did'nt work so good. /: and I bet she will say no ;( )
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    Jun 19, 2011, 12:32 PM
    Well how long has she been in the relationship with that guy?? And does she seem happy with him?? Because sometimes girls will go out with a guy they don't even like just to make another guy jealous
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    Jun 19, 2011, 12:38 PM

    Yes you should wait and see how her current relationship goes, it would be wrong to disrespect her boyfriend and try make a move on her, it makes you untrustworthy.
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    Jun 19, 2011, 02:14 PM
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    She have been in a relationship with him for two weeks now I think. And I think its weird that when I'm with her alone she is like flirting with me(I think) but I think ill wait and see how the relationship goes.
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    Jun 19, 2011, 02:16 PM
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    Yea, I think I will wait see how her current relationship goes. But if her current relationship end. What should I do?
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    Jun 19, 2011, 11:37 PM

    Well if it ends and she is upset then you should leave her be for a while until she is OK then ask her out, you have nothing to lose.
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    Jun 20, 2011, 05:56 AM

    Simply put, you missed the boat. You'll have to wait your turn. And even if she breaks up with the guy, you'll still need to give her time to cool down before she's ready for another relationship
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    Jun 20, 2011, 11:47 AM
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    OK, I will do that if it ends. Thanks (:
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    Jun 20, 2011, 11:47 AM
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    OK, Thanks (:
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