My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 3 months now. I am 15 and he is 16. We are both sophomores at the same school. The problem is, his parents are pretty strict. Even though he says they do, I don't think they really approve of us dating. Whenever we try to go out anywhere or do something together, they make it really hard to or just flat-out say no. For example, every time we are able to do something, his sister will have to come with us and it ends up being more like baby-sitting. Every time something is important to me, he can never be there like for a choir show I was in or a fashion show I was in. It's always bothered me and I always end up hurt and crying and we end up breaking up but we always end up back together. Everyone says that we should just break up and stay broken up but I'm not sure. Besides this, he is a great boyfriend. He always treats me with respect and never pressures me to do anything I don't want to, but it bothers me so much that I do a lot more for him than he can do for me. Should we break up for good?

I think you stop breaking up with him, just because he cannot do what you want because he has to obey his parents. You know he would if he could, but he cannot.

Its not fair to expect him to do things beyond his control, especially when he has strict parents, but handle your own dissapointment better and be more understanding, and just have the fun you can within the rules he has to live by.

He may get frustrated with you and decide that this no longer is worth it. Why make a tough situation even tougher on the guy?

He must talk with his parents!I think that if you love him you have to keep it!if you can't do this anymore then go to his home and talk with his parents!but he will be there too!

Anything worth having is worth fighting for