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    pink11 Posts: 9, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Oct 27, 2008, 02:14 PM
    Should I say yes?
    So this guy I really like and he likes me to but we can't do anything about it cause he has a girlfriend but she is suppose to move this month,
    After she leaves and if he asks me out should I say yes?
    Or no cause I think ill just feel like a rebound and that's what people will probley say
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    Oct 27, 2008, 02:36 PM

    If I was you id tell him that you really like him and you just want to see how things go
    Because you don't want to be the rebound girl
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    #3

    Oct 27, 2008, 03:11 PM

    If he's moving, no point, really? I always recommend to avoid pointless drama.
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    COOKIE MONSTER Posts: 589, Reputation: 56
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    Oct 27, 2008, 03:20 PM

    No j beaucaire his girlfriends moving and pink11 wants to know if we think she should go for it when or if he asks her out
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    Oct 27, 2008, 04:16 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by COOKIE MONSTER View Post
    no j beaucaire his girlfriends moving and pink11 wants to know if we think she should go for it when or if he asks her out
    Doh! My bad. Clarification noted.

    OK, I don't understand the problem then. It doesn't matter if the girlfriend is in town or moved away somewhere... you don't date people with girlfriends... even long-distance ones.

    The answer is always the same. Let the person know you're interested in them if they're ever back on the market...i.e. single again. That's it. Nothing more. No inappropriate flirting, no what-if stuff. You act noble and you don't cheat, nor tempt cheating behavior in others. Ever. Period. End of story.

    Right?

    So, let him know you'd like to do something with him sometime if he ever gets single OFFICIALLY... none of that "I'm not happy with my GF so come and console me" garbage.
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    #6

    Oct 27, 2008, 04:53 PM

    No if she moves there going to break up
    Not still be together
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    #7

    Oct 27, 2008, 06:05 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by pink11 View Post
    no if she moves there gonna break up
    not still be together
    Nothing in my reply changes. You can't predict. You can only let him know you are interested in doing something with him sometime IF he gets single.

    You can't do anything until then, you know that. So for now, you wait. There's nothing to say yes to yet.
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    Oct 27, 2008, 06:49 PM

    How do you know he likes you and how long was him and his girlfriend together?

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