
Originally Posted by
COOKIE MONSTER
no j beaucaire his girlfriends moving and pink11 wants to know if we think she should go for it when or if he asks her out
Doh! My bad. Clarification noted.
OK, I don't understand the problem then. It doesn't matter if the girlfriend is in town or moved away somewhere... you don't date people with girlfriends... even long-distance ones.
The answer is always the same. Let the person know you're interested in them
if they're ever back on the market...i.e. single again. That's it. Nothing more. No inappropriate flirting, no what-if stuff. You act noble and you don't cheat, nor tempt cheating behavior in others. Ever. Period. End of story.
Right?
So, let him know you'd like to do something with him sometime if he ever gets single OFFICIALLY... none of that
"I'm not happy with my GF so come and console me" garbage.