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rawrstef · Jul 19, 2009, 12:30 PM

Okay so they invited me 2 go 2this dudes house for a surprise party for the guy I like. And I don't know if I should go because me and him kissed once and he haad a girlfriend! D: and I think his girlfriend is going to go but she doesn't no that, that happened. But I just don't know if I want to go cause I say I'm over him. But uno that always changes when you see that person. And since its his birthday obviously his girlfriend is going to go and there obviously going to be kissing and stuff and I don't know if I would be able to take it. Please someone help because its almost time for the party in one hour!D:

s_cianci · Jul 19, 2009, 12:35 PM

You've got to make your own decision on this one ; we can't tell you what to do. If seeing him showing displays of affection to his girlfriend is something you'd rather not do, then I guess your best bet is to stay home. Of course, if you do go, there'll probably be other guys there and who knows, you just might hit it off with one of them. The biggest mistake that a lot of you young people make (and some of us old farts too, as for that matter, lol!) is forgetting that there are a lot of fish in the ocean and throwing all of your beans in one pot drastically limits your opportunities.

artlady · Jul 19, 2009, 12:35 PM

You should go but go prepared to see him being into another girl.

As long as you know he is taken,and if you can handle being around him and his GF,no reason you should not have some fun.

Maybe you will meet someone who is available.