I dated a girl for 8 months until we ended badly. This was our whole freshman year in High School and I was her first kiss and everything. But we never said "I love you" Then she started talking to her previous EX which I got very jealous of because she broke up with me. I eventually ruined my chances more on getting back together and we stopped talking for 2 months. Afterwards we started talking and everything was going okay. Then the ex came back into the picture and they started to talk a lot more. They dated for about 5 months but they barely hung out. Eventually I found out that she was going to his homecoming with him. I was so jealous especially because my homecoming and his homecoming is on the same day. My ex girlfriend goes to the same school as me. She later told me that she loved him. It hurt me because she never loved me and she loved her ex. They didn't have any good memories together and all they do is chat. So then I tried to interfere more by threatening the guy and eventually he stopped talking to her all together. They did not go to homecoming together and I know now that it was the wrong thing to do. I know I've been a bad person and I know I changed. Anyway they stopped talking and everything was going smoothly between me and her. We went ice skating together and we held hands the whole time. Then we went back to my friends house and eventually we got into a position where we were face wise very close. I then tried to kiss her but she said no not now. She said she doesn't know if she likes me or not and that I should just give up for that moment. I was so excited that I kept on asking her over and over. Eventually she answered but I think I changed her mind due to my constant asking. She said she didn't like me and that I should just give up. So then she came over because she stayed after school and she needed a ride home. I tried to surprise her by trying to kiss her. It failed and I fell on top of her. We cuddled for a bit and I tried to kiss her but she wouldn't let me. Eventually I got to sneak around 2-3 kisses and she said that it didn't count and that we will not discuss of that event again. 2 days later we went to the movies and right when we entered I tried to cuddle with her. I got her to lay on my lap and I kept touching her stomach and her face. Eventually I tried to kiss her again but she kept on resisting. But eventually I kissed her and we made out. She then told me that it's not a good time and that I should just give up. I asked her if I'm ever getting a chance in the future and she said yes. I asked her how long and she said soon. And then she kept on pushing my hand away after she said that and she wouldn't lay on my lap. We went to eat dinner together alone and we had a really good time. Eventually I got home and I asked if I really do have a chance. She said that I should just give up and that she will never love me. She said if it was meant to be then she would come back to me. Also she said that she will give me another chance but she meant soon as in 1-2 years. But when I asked her if I should just give up forever, she straight out tells me that I should. I don't want to give up and I'm willing to wait... But I'm really afraid someone might take her. What can I do to get her to fall for me. I asked her if she likes me and she said doesn't matter or IDK. Giving up is not an option though... I can't let go of her. What can I do to get her back? She said that if I just acted like friends and stop trying that she probably would have liked me more. Please give me tips

Steelers 4 Life 95,

Firstly, welcome to this great site!

Do not lose heart, do not give up. Wait and watch, and more importantly talk to her. It will clear much of the fog, and the decks. Gift her a lovely present, suggest her a nice haircut, and surprise her by sending some cute gift to her, via someone.

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Dude she is playing mad games with you head she keeps leading you on then completely rejects you. If she keeps saying you should give up, you should give up, then why does she keep spending theses private times wit you I think she confused. After her ex and her broke up I think she might be using you as a rebound bt don't take it personal this is my opinion. I know you said you don't want to give up bt you should separate yourself from her so she can get her ish together and think about what she going to do, you sound lik a good person maybe you should date other people while she get her self together maybe she'll even be a little jealous if she sees you doing big things and moving on she'll be definitely thinking about you then.

This isn't really answering the question, but STOP TRYING TO KISS HER! I've never been kissed, but my ex tried a lot! I wanted to punch him in the face. Please, you're better off just trying to hug her, I personally think it's more romantic. I've only got as far as holding hands (hugs included) it shows you care. If you try to randomly kiss her privately or in public it might make you seem like a bit of a player! Just don't. And by the way, how old are you?