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Yes I do like the guy that left for the army, and I have the ability to keep in touch with him so it is just a matter of whether he cares to reciprocate or not.

Also, I need to clear a few things...

The guy that left for the army, it's a long story but basically he was a massive 'player' lol and he knew I liked him and he told me that if he wasn't leaving he would have asked me out. I don't know...

But they aren't going out, and they never did. He liked her and she just led him on, and is still doing the same thing to him. I don't understand why I can't still be friends with him? How can you go...

Since I have turned 18, I have been going out a lot more and my girl friends and I have become better friends with a group of guys. We have all been mixing socially together, and two relationships...

You know, I have waited basically my whole teenaged life to get a boyfriend, and it hasn't happened. So I am really getting over this whole 'it comes with time' talk.
Maybe I should focus on other...

I finally got my first kiss about a month ago, and I'm 18. It was from a guy everyone calls 'manwhore'. I didn't like him at the time, I just was sick of waiting for a kiss so I just did it. I...

I met him officially for the first time on Saturday night, but yeah he is friends with one of my guy friends so I will probably see him this Friday night. Any advice?

Lol thanks! No he doesn't have a girlfriend.. what do u think I should do?

Thanks for your advice everyone :) . I do have a social life and go out with my friends all the time. We have even made friends with a group of guys recently. I guess what I am trying to say is that...

I am an 18 year old girl and I have never had a boyfriend, a first kiss and I am pretty sure no guys have ever liked me... at least not enough for a relationship. The truth is, it has gotten to the...

Yeah I know what you mean turtle girl - I feel really sad that someone else feels as crap as I do! That's horrible. I hope we both can get some confidence and try not to listen to the negative things...

Thanks for your advice and yes I have tried to reason with my dad when he is calm, but to be honest it does not do much good as he just gets angry again and often denies the horrible things he has...

Thank you so much for all your help. I really do try my best to be positive, but I just keep going back to feeling worthless. The truth is, my father has been a very negative influence on my life,...

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I'm 17 years old, and I have the worst self esteem of anybody I know. I can't believe how pathetic I am, because I know people in this world have much more problems thatn me. Even so, I can't...

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OK I have not been on this site in so long. But I'm sad to say that the same old problem has arose yet again. I am in love with a boy who does not love me back. I am 17 and have never had a...

I know this is the typical annoying teenage girl talking.. but really, this is getting pathetic. I honestly am sick of feeling unwanted and unattractive. I know a boyfriend is not the answer to all...

Thank you :) I know exactly what you mean. I just can't figure out why I am still alone, what is wrong with me? I know I'm not confident enough and probably am not in the right headspace for a...

I know this all sounds pathetic, and I have said it a hundred times over, but I really, really can't shake this feeling. I feel like, for the past year, I have made a conscious effort to try and be...

OK this is going to sound really lame but I just feel so frustrated that I am 15 (nearly 16) and have never had a boyfriend. It seems like everyone I like just doesn't like me enough to do anything....

Hey :) don't worry there is nothing wrong with you. Girls just want to know that you think they are special, they probably think that you are bored of them or something. Just try to feel better about...

Hahaha thanks for your advice! Seriosuly I understand everything you said, and your right, I know. Buttt somehow I still don't believe everything. Honestly it gets really depressing when you go...

Yeah I know what you all are saying is true, and I don't want a guy for conversation.
I know what to do, just not how. I can't just suddenley like myself

Yeah I get what you are saying. But it is just hard to be lonely and always overlooked

Omg I am so sick of being lonely all the time. Heaps of my friends have boyfriends or at least have someone who lies them, a guy friend etc and I have no one. I hear everyone's stories about what's...

Yeah. Thanks for the advice :) I am going to try and make things better, but I'm just not sure I can change myself like that

OK lately I have been feeling kind of depressed but it isn't as bad as it used to be. I have never had a boyfriend before and it never used to bother me that much but now it is really starting to...

I think he just thinks he is to cool for me. I don't no what his problem is, he can't even be friendly in real life, its sooo weird

Thank you for your honesty.

Well I certainly do not have the confidence to ask him, and I have asked him why he never talks to me and he told me it was because we were two different types of...

Hahaha that's funny because I think that I am the most unintimidating person! OK I don't think he likes me, I'll tell you why. Because last night my family and a few others including his and two of...

I just am really confused at the moment. He commented me on myspace and was acting really nice to me and he has never been that polite before or initiated conversation, it was a real shock. I am so...

I don't know, I really don't. Everything is just so confusing. How am I supposed to know how to act and be like I mean nobody actually tells you how to have a relationship, it just happens for most...

Haha yes so do I!
Well I will try to muster up what courage I have and talk to him! But I'm sure it won't make any difference. I'm more of a 'friends' girl not a girlfriend girl . Like you know,...

Cool thanks. I know what you mean, I will try to be more confident, key word try! Lol
I just hope I don't make a fool out of myself!
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Okay thank you! I know its not intentional when she says it, I think it just comes out sometimes. I really like him and after she said that I just felt like I'm wasting my time. I am not very good in...

Lol thanks for your advice. I definitely would not make it obvious or profess my undying love for him!

Also today I was telling my friend about him and I asked her if she thought I should go to...

I seriously don't know what to say to him, I don't want to make things awkward

I just don't think he would like me, I mean I'm not good enough for him!

But are you sure he likes me? I mean I don't want to get my hopes up. I could go to my brothers soccer game again this weekend but I get really shy I don't know if I could talk to him..

I know I am the one suffering here, I haven't talked to him in ages and he doesn't even care one bit . I don't quite get what you mean by why though?

I sure hope so!

I don't think he is a very nice person, I have realised that now and I think if I went on and on about it to him he would just hate me more, so I just won't talk to him, I avent for a while, ad he...

I don't know what he is thinking. I'm only a year above him in school and I am one of the youngest in my grade so its not like a major age difference. Yehh I don't mind just being friends with him...

I actually I saw him today at my little brothers soccer and we didn't talk. It was really awkward and I didn't know what to say, I mean, his mum was right there I didn't want her to think I was...

My little brother is in a soccer team with one of his best friends and he has an older brother who is a year younger than me. Last year his family and a few other ones came over for a barbecue and he...

Are you saying I should tell him I still like him? Because he already likes someone else, he even has a pic of them on his myspace. That's great for your friend :) but I just don't think it would end...

Yeah I don't talk to him anymore. Well he doesn't talk to me so why should I bother! Mean men suck. I pray I will meet some nice ones becoz its been all baddddddddd so far!

Hmm yeah I know he is not nice! And he has done worse things since then. He is so not worth my time ! I guess some companionship would be nice though!

Sorry wrong wording there . I don't really know what I am on about. All I know is that he makes me feel worhtless and I still like him even though I know he is a waste of time.
And I don't like...

I don't even know why I like him. He isn't worth it. He makes me feel worthless . But somehow I don't see that as a problem

Yes. I still don't know what his problem is I'm still so confused?