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Ging1994 · Jun 17, 2007, 10:21 PM

OK theirs this fat ugly annoying stupid delutionaly girl at my school she's really annoying and thinks all the guys like her when they make fun of her I completely hate her she makes fun of me like the guys she follows do the thing is most of them are my friend and are just jokin around they call me "emo" everyone's just messin around with me but she's just going at it and I'm trying to be the better person by just trying to ignore it only once have I made a coment and she almost socked me well that would have ended up by her being beat up well I really want to do something about her she'll make fun of me then say she's my friend what's wrong with her and what's a way I can prevent myself from dissing her and embarising her more no matter how much she deserves it :mad:

cal823 · Jun 17, 2007, 10:26 PM

No one deserves to be ridiculed, and yeah, some people in school can be a bit... weird, or fat, or watever *cough* but still, no one deserves to be ridiculed. Don't let her physical differences or whatever change how you judge her behaviour, that's being discriminative or whatever. And hey, being tolerant means you're the better person! Who cares what others think about you
I hope you can have the strength to tolerate and still be nice, just don't waste your time talking to people who can't be civil aye, I know its hard, but its worth it at the end of the day, when you know you did the right thing under pressure

hvacservicetech_07 · Jun 17, 2007, 10:28 PM

Grow up, stay away from her, and do what you should be doing at school, learning? Do kids still do that?

Rockabilly1955mama · Jun 17, 2007, 11:00 PM

Ignore it. She will get bored when you don't pay attention to her words of dislike. She'll move on to the next victim. Don't let it get to you.

Hope this helped!

Ging1994 · Jun 18, 2007, 05:19 PM

The phisical diffrences I've all ready gotten over when I found out she lived next to one of my bestfriends it the way she asks and treats me that bothers me the most

rockerchick_682 · Jun 18, 2007, 05:29 PM

She makes fun of you because it makes her feel better. Just ignore her, or play along with it. Oh I know I cut all the time, etc.

Rockabilly1955mama · Jun 18, 2007, 06:18 PM

Originally Posted by Ging1994

the phisical diffrences i've all ready gotten over when i found out she lived next to one of my bestfriends it the way she asks and treats me that bothers me the most

Tell her to leave you alone and pick on someone else because it ain't bothering you one bit!
She'll get over it.

shygrneyzs · Jun 18, 2007, 06:23 PM

That's right, ignore her, act like you don't hear her, and walk away. It is sad that this girl is doing the same thing that no doubt that has been done to her. It is her way of getting back, of evening a score, of lashing out in her hurt. But you do not, and your friends do not, have to put any energy into responding to her.

Now you can report her for harassing you. You can talk to your school counselor and request a face to face meeting with her - spelling everything out and saying you wish no verbal contact from her and you will not tolerate any more negative remarks. When you say that with an adult witness - she is on the line to shape her attitude up.

I know high school seems to last forever, but it does not. This girl does need help - counseling, as what she is doing is really hurting herself more.

MishcaParker · Jun 18, 2007, 06:56 PM

:p I am really sorry to say it but the advice you have been given will not work! I know this because when dinsaurs walked the earth (about 10yrs ago) I was one of those popular girls who enjoyed nothing more than torturing the unpopular kids. Ignoring it or walking away will not stop her but if you ask her "Do you feel better about yourself now?" after she has been nasty to you, she will feel really embarrassed, sometimes a bully just won't stop though. Stand up for yourself girl! You do not need to be rude or nasty to do so but do net let yourself become a doormat and erode yourself esteem,you have the right to always stand up for yourself and trust me I only picked on those who didn't stand up to me.

Ging1994 · Jun 19, 2007, 08:19 PM

Its not really that she's hurting me she's just being annoying and I don't want to just act like I don't care because she'll tell her mom who will tell my friends mom that I'm mean and incensitive and I'm scard she'll believe her

70ssue · Nov 19, 2007, 08:00 AM

Be honest, do you dislike this girl, because in your words, she fat and ugly or because she is annoying. If it the 2nd one then I feel sorry for you. Just remember just because someone is fat doesn't make them ugly

Ging1994 · Nov 20, 2007, 08:51 AM

I'm not sure if she would look prettier if she lost weight but right now she's really over weight and that makes her really ugly she's really annoying that what gets to me the most

oreo630 · Nov 24, 2007, 03:28 PM

Originally Posted by hvacservicetech_07

Grow up, stay away from her, and do what you should be doing at school, learning? Do kids still do that??

School is not only for learning! Its for socialising! Duhhh!

rockerchick_682 · Nov 28, 2007, 09:24 PM

I don't know if she's capable of it, but if you sit down with her and ask her why she treats you the way she does, then maybe she'll come back into reality and back off.

She's doing it because by putting you down, it makes herself look better, or at least to her it does. People who make fun of others do it because they are insecure, and usually what they make fun of you for, is really what they hate in themselves.

Ging1994 · Nov 29, 2007, 08:05 PM

She's very diliutional so I don't think talking with her will make a big diffrence I've already talked to her a little she doesn't do it as much but she'll still do it