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    andy305mia Posts: 48, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 9, 2008, 10:24 PM
    My past ruining my relationships with girls and maybe my friendship to.
    I love my ex girlfriend, but I can't go out with her for religious reasons now. But now I think I'm falling for my best friends crush. And I don't know if his crush likes me or not. And I know she has some feelings for my best friend. But I want to know what to do because every time I think about getting with a girl my ex comes to my mind. Then I think how beautiful my ex was, so then I blow all girls off cause of my thoughts. But now I want to get away from these thoughts and talk my friends crush. But I don't want to be heartbroken by her not wanting to talk to me. And I don't want to ruin the relationship between me and my best friend.WHAT SHOULD I DO? I NEED HELP!!
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    JBeaucaire Posts: 5,426, Reputation: 997
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    Jun 9, 2008, 11:38 PM
    Stop aiming for both sides of every target. Pick one. You, YOU do that, pick one. Do it. Pick one. Do it now. Make a choice. Be a man, stand up and be heard. Be decisive and choose. Don't look back. Choose.

    Did you choose? Now go do all the things to make that choice happen. Stop asking us, go, go do it now.



    .. . Are you still here?
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    ladieedee21 Posts: 96, Reputation: 6
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    Jun 10, 2008, 11:00 AM
    To what I think and my advice is come on... you know that your best friend's crush has feelings for him... why would you want to ruin it?. I mean he is your best friend...
    Your going to ruin this relationship with him... cause of a girl that you know he likes...

    I think your just.. you knoww... thinking too much cause your so pissed and madd annoyed cause of leavinq your ex... that you are trying to forget about the pastt...

    Do that but not with your best friend...

    Look at these results...

    "you end up with the chick [your best friend's crush]... then your best friend wouldn't be your best friend... people will now know that you ditched him.. and stole his crush"

    "You tell the Chick that you like her... your best friend wouldn't trust you and would never let you know about his life ever again"

    Be realistic... you reallly want to act like this.. ruin everything... I know you could find other girls... you said each time a girl comes by.. you remember your ex... why hasn't this chick[best friends crush] put you down??

    Your just going through stufff... think about it... do something that you know would lead you to the best.. look at the results... "what would happen if i do this...think ahead"
    I know you can..
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    IheartEdward Posts: 203, Reputation: 4
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    Jun 10, 2008, 11:30 AM
    Personally if I loved someone the way you seem to love you ex, I wouldn't let anything not even religion come between us. But that entirly up to you.. I sound like a Disney movie but listen to you heart.. that's were you choise lies
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