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    eph9011 Posts: 9, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 30, 2007, 08:29 PM
    Me being single, I guess.
    I met this girl about a year ago, really pretty, she's my friend and all, but I was sort of introduced to her sister, most beautiful girl I've seen, and I like her, to this day I still like her, but I'm shy, not with anyone else but with her... I've tried to talk to her before and I blew it, so she got sort of annoyed at my stupidity... and this year I've been getting to know the girl and I know a couple of things about her siste thanks to her... but I've been able to talk to the girl again, and it has been even better... one day I was listening to rush on my iPod with the girl and she called her sister because she happens to like rush as well, and she asked her if that was my iPod, she asked if it was mine, she even knew my name... I got so freakin excited (OMFG I EXIST IN HER WORLD! ) I know it's not really big but I got full of courage enough to talk to her on the bus and we actually had a nice conversation. I want to repeat this well enough to get closer to her because I know we can be at least great friends (I like the girl enough I wish she would be my girlfriend but she has a boyfriend right now) but now I really don't know what to do, I've thought about a lot of things, and I rely mostly on me talking to her if we're on the bus, but I don't want it to be like that so, from the bottom of my weird and funny heart, gimme some advice, some words of wisdom... help !
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    Apr 30, 2007, 08:41 PM
    Give her your number or ask for hers. There's a start. Talking on the phone may not make you as nervous as you are talking in person.
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    Apr 30, 2007, 09:00 PM
    I was thinking about that, her sister's got my number, considering she knows me, but I got to get to know this girl, take up this chance that I've been waiting for... thing is I'm getting nervous on something that's so easy to do and, even worse, I've done it before with great success... damnit.
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    Apr 30, 2007, 09:26 PM
    Even if her sister has your number, still ask that girl for her number. Just go for it. Imagine how great you'll feel after you do it. You'll feel confident and excited that you get to call her or have her call you. Goodluck
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    May 1, 2007, 12:55 AM
    If she has a boyfriend right now, I'd say don't rush it, and don't freak her out by getting to close (I mean so close that it's like she's dating 2 guys at once). Just be her friend for now, and hope that she breaks up with the other guy. For most, love her as a friend, it's the best friendship, at least in my book. Anyway, good luck, and I hope things work out for the best for you!

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