OK so I really like this guy at school. I mean really really like! But I'm not sure he even knows my last name or for that matter my first name! I feel like he thinks I'm just another girl. I'm not the kind of girl who would go up to a guy I like and talk to him. I'm kind of shy around guys I like. Give me tips or info. I have never liked a guy likes this before. And also I have never had a boyfriend. I know sad! He is smart funny good looking popular... I am not nerdy!! I'm smart and funny, goood looking. I mean I really don't get how I could be in 7th grade and not have a boyfriend. Give me fed back!!

Well that's kind of tough I understand that totally. I felt that way before and what I did was I played the waiting game because he had a girlfriend.. but if he is single you already part way in. Look for something he is interested in that you have in common with him, but don't follow him around to see because that would creep him out... lol I learned that the hard way. And when you do find something you have in common, you find him on a say his friends aren't around, either that or pass him a note and ask for some time you could talk. If that doesent work try to find a contact strategy of when you can meet or whatever. Get to know him more for who he is, tell him you will be able to listen to him when he has things to say and help him the best you can. If he is really the kind of guy you said he is up there: "popular" Then he is the type who only acts funny because it's his titale at school and he has feeling like anyone and people always have things running through their mind and well if he gets personally close to you then maybe he will start getting comfortable around you, and will make a move over time. And if he gets a girlfriend help him with her, the reason is well relationships don't last forever and when his is done with her He'll love you for it and he will owe you big time. I'm only in grade 8 this 2008 and last year I liked this guy and that's how it went.. really good.. It's just that it depends on the person really. I hope it works.

Are you kidding? I've only had one boy friend in school (and you think your lame, I'm not nerdy either). You don't need a guy to make it through school. In fact guys at that age (sorry guys) are for the most part immature loosers. Your better without one though it may not seem that way.

I'd suggest actually talking to him so he knows who you are, have a friend drop hints. Or make friends with his friends. You can't go out with a guy if you won't talk to him, that would make for some weird one way conversation on his part.

Don't worry so much, when the right guy comes along you'll know (and you'll be able to talk to him).
Good luck with the guy :-)

Thanks guys! That is helping me work up confidents! But, I don't know if I'm ready yet? I know I can't go out with him with out talking to him but, I just wish there was an easier way. Anyway this is really nice to talk to other plp than my friends well the ones I can trust who won't tell anyone. Thxs again and if anyone else has tips or advice tell me!! :)

Well I'm a 17 year old girl... I don't see myself as ugly or anything but I have never dated. I'm a senior in high school... hahha I promise you're not lame being a 7th grader who's not in a realationship. Just don't settle for someone because she feel lame... if you like him GREAT! Talk to him, get to know who he really is, but don't throw yourself at him. If it's one thing I've learned guys like it's a girl they think they can't get. Don't make yourself undatable, but deff. Play hard to get!

My opinion, wait till high school to actually really date. Boyfriends in 7th grade are just titles. They can't take you out, can't buy you things. And you are always supervised. But do get to know him. He might be a good friend, and in the future, he might find out that your pretty cool. And that is a waay better romance than a 7th grade boyfriend.

I do understand all the peer pressure to be seen with a cool guy in 7th grade. But once you are a bit older you will laugh at this. So guess you could either make the first move or possibly resign to the fact that you might remain anonymous to him. But it definitely is not the end of the world. (Easier said than done)