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    Jun 28, 2010, 04:19 AM
    If he loves her, what can I do?
    My friend, A and I are quite close. I tell her everything and she did the same. The only thing she did not tell me is who she likes and all. So to respect her, I didn't ask her anything about it but I do know that she likes someone.

    This guy, C. I really like him for 3 years now. He and I are just plain normal friends. I didn't now tell him that I like him because I'm afraid he might freaked out and avoid me. So I told A everything about him and she said she doesn't like him at all. She finds him annoying. Although she said that, but she seemed to be talking to him a lot compared to me.

    I'm not surprised if suddenly he said he likes her as she already have 4 guys falling for her without doing anything! If he really did like her, should I tell him to go for her and wish him luck?
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    Jun 28, 2010, 04:33 AM

    He will go for it if he likes her regardless of whether you suggest it or not.

    Its hard for you if he does,but don't forget,guys come and go,good friends are hard to come by,perhaps she knows you would be hurt if she liked him.

    Be honest with each other,don't let a guy ruin your friendship.
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    Jun 28, 2010, 04:49 AM

    If you are in love with someone who loves someone else it's very painful but the truth is there is nothing you can do about it. And the sooner you can let go the sooner you will heal and hurt less.
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    Jun 30, 2010, 04:35 AM

    Ive been in the same sort of situation before. And in the end he did date my friend but I hung out with them like they were both my friends cut off the part that I liked him and ud be surprised be a fun person and act a little crazy and ul soon have him wanting you instead it also helps to give him advice on the relationship if they start having problems :)

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