Hello folks,I decided to write you my problem maybe you can give me some solutions... I'am 18 years old (going on 19) My problem is my family, my parents are very strict, I was a brilliant student in school before but 4 years ago my grades started decreasing.. And since my mom is a teacher she started complaining and there ly problems started ! We fight argue almost everyday , my father who was nice with me started ignoring me (I don't know why , maybe because he loves my older brother more than me) every time I talk to him he just don't answer me.. I started smoking, I thought it was a solution to my problems but my mom found out about that and now she hates me more, also dad.. They call every second to ask where I'am , ask me where I spent my money, when I get out of the house they tell me to come back before 19h -_-" that's too early you know... About the smoke which is the main problem right now, I tried to quit it with some medicaments but I couldn't.. When I try to talk to them they just start yelling at me... Please guys I need some advices I really need help I just feel like everybodie hates me.. And sorry for my bad english it's my 3rd language and thanks :)

So how about getting a job, moving out and having your own life?

As to stop smoking, just stop, put it down, and have enough will power just not to smoke.

What are you doing now, going to school? Whose money do you spend.

Thanks Chuck :) about getting a job now.. it's too early.I go to school now and I'am having private lessons , if the teacher tells me that I should pay him 60$ I tell my parents that the lessons are for 80$.. so I take 20$/month.. I know that's not good but I can't survive without money.. you know :s

Im sorry about what is happening maybe seek some therapy with the family and the main reason now is you need to quit smoking. It turns your lungs black and gives you lung cancer and can kill you. If you can seek treatment and therapy it helped me with all of my problems.