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    regyregy Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 14, 2013, 02:42 PM
    How to stop having sex?
    My boyfriend keeps asking for sex. Touching my boobs and body. How do I get him to stop. Help me please.
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    Jan 14, 2013, 03:01 PM
    Did you try telling him to stop? Did you use the word "no"? I assume you are fairly young and you realize you're not ready for sex and this is why you want him to stop. If he is going to keep pressuring you even after you have told him to stop, then he is not someone you need to be with. It sounds to me like he is only trying to use you for sex.

    Tell him to stop, if he can't respect your wishes, break up with him.
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    Jan 14, 2013, 05:02 PM
    When a simple NO doesn't work, kick him out and dump him are your other options. Giving in never works.
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    Jan 14, 2013, 05:20 PM
    Maybe if you weren't alone with him it would help... like if you stay in public places or with friends. When you spend time privately, alone~things could happen. The whole issue is avoided if you just don't be alone together. Just a thought. Wish you the best.
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    Jan 14, 2013, 05:30 PM
    First he does not care and love you, if after being told NO and explained it means NO, if he keeps doing it.

    So just tell him if that is what he wants, you are not the girl for him, Most after they get what they want, move on to to other girls anyway
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    Jan 14, 2013, 06:20 PM
    You have the wrong boyfriend. If you have told him to stop, and he hasn't, then he doesn't respect you and all he wants is sex. You must have respect and trust in any relationship to have a good time, and really enjoy each other. Please look around, and meet some new people. You will eventually find a boy that respects you, and does not keep pressuring you. Good luck.
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    Jan 15, 2013, 11:49 AM
    If he touches your "boobs and body" without your consent/permission and despite you asking him to touch you he is committing a physical assault. Yes, that's harsh - it's also true.

    I am confused about "stop having sex." Have you been having sex and now you want to stop OR does he want sex and you do not?
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    Jan 15, 2013, 01:20 PM
    Tell him your not ready for that and if he can't respect that, he is not right for you.
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    Jan 15, 2013, 01:36 PM
    I agree with everyone and add NEVER allow anyone to touch you if you don't want to be touched. That is abuse and every other negative word anyone can think of.

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