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    Campdraftqueen Posts: 39, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 1, 2012, 04:59 PM
    How long should you be single after a breakup?
    I have been single for about 2 months now after I dumped my last boyfriend and today I got asked out by another guy and I really like him. But I'm worried that if I go out with him then my EX will think that I never liked him. WShat should I do?? Should I just forgett about what my EX would say or should I say no to this other guy??
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    Jun 1, 2012, 05:03 PM
    If it's been 2 months then I think you're fine to go out with the other guy! If your ex gives you any trouble then just ignore him! He'll just be trying to get you back and if you ignore his rude comments then he'll get the message and see that you're not interested anymore (but don't be too mean about it, that never ends well :) ) If you really like the guy who just asked you out then go for it :)
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    Jun 1, 2012, 05:10 PM
    Are you still hung up on your ex? Sounds like you are, otherwise what he thinks about whether you liked him would not matter.
    It's been two months. You need to move on.
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    Jun 1, 2012, 09:30 PM
    If it's been two months, and you were the one that dumped him, it would be your call to go out with the new person. If you still have feelings for your ex then I would wait until those feelings go away. If you know that those feelings won't go away for awhile then tell the new man that you would love to go out and that you would like to take things slow because you are still trapped in the heartache and just don't want anything bad to happen in this new relationship

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