Hi everyone:)
Well the thing is , there's this guy in my high school and we're really good friends since 2 years now. He's in my group of friends and we use to go hang out sometimes and we both flirt a lot with each other since we met. We'll the other day I broke up with my boyfriend which happens to be his best friend , and that day I went to his house with other friends he acted normal to me flirting as always .

But when I went online that night , he started talking to me on chat , which he hardly ever does and he told me he thought I was hot and smart and that he didn't tell me before cause I had a boyfriend. And then he told me he felt like making out with me that day but he didn't cause he thought i would reject him , and that ofc he likes me.
Well a week after he said that I was sure I like him as well , so I asked again , if he likes me and he said: yeah i like you as more than a friend, but i like a lot of other girls that way.. , Anyway after that I told him that I like him. And I don't really know what to do now to get him and make him forget about the other girls( if there's any , and he didn't say it to be cool ) How do I get him to ask me out ?
Xxx
Sorry is so long :P
But I really need advise:S
Thanks so much for your help <3

You want advice, not advise.

In high school, it's not a good idea to be exclusive, so he's right not to like just one girl, but want to be friends with lots of girls.

Ask him out. It sounds like he would enjoy spending time with you at the mall or at a movie. Does he drive, or can the two of you walk somewhere?

OK first of all he's your ex's best friend.. so that tells me he's not a good friend.. second of all why would you want to be with a guy that have a roving eye? He checks you out and plenty of other girls, I think when he told you this he was speaking in code.. by telling you he's likes other girls too he may have been implying he doesn't want a relationship, he sounds like a player to me if I'm honest. Don't focus on one bloke, have fun being newly single and don't look for another bloke just yet. :)

Well we were friends way before I started dating his best frined , so yeah we are actually good friedns Yh iknw he's kind of a player , but as long is al flirtin nothing else it'll be fine I still want to givehim a try though.how should I get him 2askme out?

Yea sure if you think you can trust he will be faithful then go for it :) I don't know a way of getting him to ask you out but you could just ask him? He might admire you more for being so straight forward, and you will stand out from all the others!

Yeah I meant advice , sorry I made an spellin error , but you got it didn't you ? ;)
He lives far away and no , he doenst drive, in europe you got to be 18. Is winters here so I don't think walking would be a great idea.
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It's winter here too (yuk).

Yes, I knew what you meant with "advise," but it's a frequently misspelled word (confused with "advice"), so if you start spelling it correctly and spread the word, that's all to the good. Right?

advise = verb = Please advise me.
advice = noun = Here's my advice.

Well, you wondered how you could get him to ask you out. If you can't walk anywhere because of winter and he can't drive, what does "ask you out" mean? Out to what?

Hahah yeah thanks :) I thought you were from america though :P
I know what ask out means , but where should I ask him out then ?

I AM in North American, the U.S. near Chicago. We're in the Northern Hemisphere just like you are, so it's winter now in this hemisphere. (The earth's tilt tells us it's winter above the equator and summer below it.)

Well, what does "going out" mean where you live?

I live in holland , well it means start dating someone , could be like "hey wanna go out with me ( and then u have a date and all) ," or just like do you want to go out with me to ask someoen to havea relationship with you. That's how we use it .:P

I still don't get it. What do you do if you "go out" with someone?

You start to date them. So basically same as in america , but you don't always need to go somewhere when you say to someone hey do you want to go out with me?:)

What do you DO together? When I was your age, we hung out together after school at maybe a school club or walked into town (a half mile away) to go to the diner for Coke and fries or we would hang out together in a church group that did all sorts of activities.It was a rural area/small town, so if you couldn't drive, you had to depend on others to get around or have a good imagination to come up with stuff to do so you didn't just stand there staring at each other.

Since you can't go anywhere on your own or officially date like older teens can, "going out together" is just a way of saying "I like you better than the others and have picked you out to be my special person"?

No it means want to date me basically ? Like want to be my gf/bf? But you don't HAVE to go out on a date if you don't want to.

Okay. So I was correct at the end -- It's just a way of saying, "I like you better than the others and have picked you out to be my special person."

Ill have to be uber brave then :S Thanks :)xx

Hmm I guess so. Hhaahah lol this is not exactly what I asked for ^^ .
I just needed advise on how to get him :P

Ask him to hang out with you somewhere. (Where?) You have to get him to spend time with you somehow, so he will find out what a glorious creature you are!

Tell him how you feel. I'm sure he'll understand if he truly loves you. Or you can just warn him, unless if you take advise from a 5th grader!