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applesbananas456 · Apr 26, 2008, 10:43 PM

I have a problem. I'm a really loving person and I never really had a chance to experience a really close and affectionate relationship. I think people like me but, nothing more than that really. So I was wondering if anyone knew how to help me really attract guys like, kind of to tell them that I'm interested in more, without being distastefully blunt. Please and thanks. :o

KalFour · Apr 26, 2008, 10:48 PM

I just talk to them, get to know them. If and when a mutual attraction grows, we eventually act on it. Plain and simple.

The best thing to do is just be yourself. People will like you for who you are. You've posted this in teens, so I'm guessing you're fairly young. So don't worry about it too much. There's no rush. Take your time and let things develop slowly. You'll find someone.

All the best,
Kal

Niamh-x · Apr 27, 2008, 05:29 PM

Personally speaking.. this is usually how it goes with my relationships..
If I'm attracted to them or they make me laugh and I feel a connection between us
I just talk to them more, flirt a little bit, but if they don't flirt back or if I don't receive the signals that I'm sending out, I back down
Asking for numbers or email addresses lets them know you have an interest in them without being too direct
The WORST thing to do is change yourself
I've been in the situation where you THINK that if you only change one little fact about you it doesn't matter, but what you'll find is that once you start lying about one little shadow of your life, the shadow grows bigger and bigger and you'll find yourself in the deep end not knowing how you got there
If someone doesn't like you for who you are, then move on because there's a lot of people out there who are looking for someone who's just like you
:) x

thegreatestviz · May 1, 2008, 10:20 AM

:o hey don't feel mixed up.. it doesn't happen with girls only... even I'm in the same situation except the fact that I don't know hw to attract girls or realize when is a girl attracted to me...

What I noe is if you be yourself and trust what you do it what be hard to get guys... just if you like him.. get flirty or nudge gently intentionally acting it was unintentional... just keep trying with more creative ways...
It will help I hope.
Tc
Keep trying
All the best
viz

TmichelleO · May 2, 2008, 06:36 PM

Originally Posted by thegreatestviz

:o hey dnt feel mixed up..it doesnt happen with girls only...even im in the same situation except the fact that i dunno hw to attract girls or realize whn is a girl attracted to me...

wht i noe is if u be ur self and trust what u do it what be hard to get guys....just if u like him..get flirty or nudge gently intentionally acting it was unintentional...just keep trying with more creative ways...
it will help i hope.
tc
keep trying
all the best
viz

For a guy that is pretty insightful lol ;) but he is right 1 you aren't alone we all have are problems with getting guys... or girls for viz... but remember that you don't have to change who you are for anyone! If a guy is even worth your time he will like you for YOU! But sometime I have to say you have to be blunt with guys because they don't always pick it up... I always flirt subtly at first to see if he flirts back and is interested and if I get to know him and usually things will go naturally from there its not something you have to learn!! But good luck!!