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rikku3464 · Dec 21, 2011, 07:37 AM

I don't know what to do, I love him and I have done something really stupid and horrible, how do I fix this. I showed my boyfriend a notebook that had a lot of problems in it between a friend and him and me, and it was saying in there that I was going to spilt with him, and that was a pasted desions because when I get stressed iget sick really bad, and now I don't know what he thinks, I no what I wrote was wrong and that I should not of showed him that notebook but I wanted him to no what was going on and that I loved him, I Don't want to split with him I love and I don't know how to prove it to him, that he means everything to me. I was wrong to write all of it. But at the time I thought it was a good idea because I thought my parents were going to send me to a different state because him and I were "messing" around and I didn't want him to get into trouble. So I told them myself I had letters and stuff already plaid to send to him just in case I was sent away and so he didn't go to jail. I love him a lot. And how he knows everything and I don't think he understands even if he does it still sucks I never wanted to do this I love him and I don't know how to make him understand that he means everything and that that notebook means nothing. I love you babe... <3

Fr_Chuck · Dec 21, 2011, 08:24 AM

Yes you were wrong to lie to your parents who it appears where trying to protect you since you were underage and "messing" around with a older boy.

You were it appeared confused at some point and time. I have no idea why you felt it needed to show him what ever this note book was.

But you don't make it up, you don't prove anything, you end up living with errors you made and learning from them, not to do them again.

rikku3464 · Dec 21, 2011, 02:57 PM

You I no I lyed to my parents to protect himn he is not that much older then I am just 3 n half years older and they approve of him, I had told my parents about him and me 'messing' around and they say they don't like it but they won't stop me and he didn't get into trouble. I don't no why I should him that notebook. It was stupid, and **** like that. I o I ****ed up bad and I'm truly srry for that. I just hope my boyfriend will for give me. That's what matters to me the most.

talaniman · Dec 21, 2011, 08:01 PM

You don't have anything to prove, either he believes you, or he don't, so just tell the whole truth.

How old is this guy any way that he messes with girls older than him??

rikku3464 · Jan 7, 2012, 02:40 PM

Thanks guys a lot for your help we are cool :)n your right I dont:)

Alty · Feb 18, 2012, 05:55 PM

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ld-636163.html

According to her other posts, where a "friend" is dating a 19 year old and she's 14, I'd guess that rikku is the 14 year old and she's dating a 19 year old.

Also, there's already been a pregnancy scare, so these two are obviously having sex. :(

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/womens...ed-615836.html

I hope your boyfriend is ready for prison and being a registered sex offender for the rest of his life.

Also, your parents could go to jail.

But you're mature right? You must be if you're ready to have a child (Sex = pregnancy), and you're dating a guy that's a legal adult when you're a child. When he goes to jail for rape and your parents go to jail, you should be able to support yourself. That's what mature people do.

Good luck.

ScottGem · Feb 18, 2012, 06:19 PM

Originally Posted by Alty

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ld-636163.html

According to her other posts, where a "friend" is dating a 19 year old and she's 14, I'd guess that rikku is the 14 year old and she's dating a 19 year old.

Also, there's already been a pregnancy scare, so these two are obviously having sex. :(

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/womens...ed-615836.html

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Lets presume for a moment, that rikku is not Lily. Lets even presume that rikku's boyfriend isn't 19. Since rikku and Lily are friends, we CAN presume that they are close to the same age (14) and live in the same state. Since the age of consent in WI is 18 and since there is no age gap provision, then rikku's boyfriend is guilty of sexual assault, since she admitted to being sexual active. What's worse is rikku's mother could find herself facing criminal prosecution since WI law makes it a criminal offense for Failure to Act and rikku has admitted her mother knows of her being sexual active.

Alty · Feb 18, 2012, 06:41 PM

I don't like to presume, but I'll play along. Either way though, Rikku is not in the clear, nor is her boyfriend or her parents. Lily is also in a troublesome situation. All of them need to start acting a lot more mature than they have been, including the parents in this situation.